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Should I apologize to my ex or just let it go?

I haven't talked to my ex boyfriend since may 1st. I felt played and overall I felt like he didn't value me. Despite everything, and I dont think he realizes that I just wanted to protect him. Due to past lies and feeling...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

How do you work things out with a man who doesn't know how to love but is trying to change?

My ex boyfriend broke me more than he realizes. I wanted to prove to him that it was safe to love again because I loved him. But he pushed me away, shut me out, and whenever I couldnt take it anymore he would lure me back...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Yes, Girls, Friendzone is Real and It's Worse Than Rejection

So, I'm going to make this short and sweet ladies. As women I don't expect you to fully understand why the opposite sex feels so different, but you're going to have to just take it on faith from mankind. PRELUDE: No, no...

RationalMale

Editor Age: 34

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Will he come back, should I be upset? Ex partying same day we broke up?

I had been dating my now ex for 8 months& had been official for 2 of those months. A couple months into the relationship we started having problems, he had a lot of stress between family issues & work issues & he ended up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Is this helping or hurting me?

Since my ex left me, I've been looking for distractions to occupy my anxiety filled thoughts. I've started working everyday and I've essentially cut off the world to focus on myself. I think I'm trying to fill that "void"...

bankrollsupreme

Xper 4 Age: 34

How to know if this relationshipbis worth while?

The girl I'm seeing is considerate and will help and take care of people she likes although in her day to day interactions she is rude and curses a lot, like to pinch people and poke them just to have fun. All in all a...

Avron

Xper 3 Age: 38

Dating

Does my male best friend like me or is it just flirting? Should I try and show him I like him too?

The day we met it was in a group of people, and we were talking about careers and he said to the group once I'm successful I'm going to come back and marry you, looking at me, and everyone was like 'ooooh' and I was kind...

ttt1122

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

Does my male best friend like me? Or could he just be flirting only?

There's this guy I'm really good friends with, we've been close for two years now. The first day we met it was in a group of people, and we were talking about careers and he said to the group once I'm successful and...

ttt1122

Xper 4 Age: 34

Should I ask for him back to has he moved on?

So, me and this guy met in the summer in a very romantic and cute, basically the first time we met, we talked straight for an hour in a tent and it was amazing. I got butterflies anytime I was around him and we got really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why isn’t she talking?

I have a female BFF who was going through a bad breakup with an ex a few months after we became good friends. I thought I was helping her through it and it seems she was still hoping it would work out and that they would...

scribner

Xper 5 Age: 56

How do I deal with my ex finding someone else when I am forced to live in the room next to him?

We broke up a week ago. I still love him, he didn't. That's fine. It hurts but I can't make someone love me. Well, tonight he came home drunk and two of his friends were helping him as he was being sick. I am next...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She loves the jerk over me?

Okay, here's the situation: I've been helping this girl out for 2 months. I've known her for 3 years now and recently I've fallen for her. Turns out, she admits that she had a crush on me too. We makeout and show that we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hurt when hearing about Ex?

I loved my Ex... I guess we have a lot of mutual friends and coworkers so it's natural I hear about her a lot. Everytime I even hear her name I feel anxious and my heart is in pain. Hearing about her new boyfriend...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my soon to be ex husband try now?

My husband and I filed for divorce back in December but we haven't received a court date yet. What i don't understand is recently he has put effort into helping with the kids, he finally took me on a date but before we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What happened to our love?

I had got back with my ex boyfriend who said while we werent together he missed me and that he always loved me. Things were going okay I wouldn't see him often but our love was there and when we would see each other it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Im need of advise?

So my ex keeps getting mad at me even tho we broke up 2 month ago. when he calls he makes me cry by insulting me and hangs up on me I have the urge to call back in which I do most of the time... and I end up apologize for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So my ex keeps getting mad at me even tho we broke up 2 month ago. when he calls he makes me cry by insulting me and hangs up on me I have the urge to call back in which I do most of

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Boyfriend accusing over a uti?

Got the news I have a kidney infection (probably started as a uti) and instead of being concerned about me, my boyfriend has been accusing me of sleeping around. I already feel like crap and this isn’t helping. This isn’t...

CateF

Xper 4 Age: 37

Do girls (specifically ex-girlfriends) ever actually ask guys a serious, specific question because they're "just curious" or "for no reason"?

My girlfriend of two years broke up with me a little over two months ago. She said she just wanted to be friends when breaking up. However, since the day we broke up she has gradually continued to show more and more signs...

Anonymous

(30-35)