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Once upon a time a woman named Kathryn was in the early stages of dating and sleeping with Antwan. She had an ex boyfriend named Jim that she openly stated was a "really good friend of hers". Kathryn stated that she texts him before going to his local wellness store to see if he is there and have items ready for pick up.

It is the Christmas holiday. Antwan is dating Kathryn but doesn't know Jim. They both have a mutual friend. A picture was put on facebook of their mutual friend in the first week of December. It was posted by Jim. Kathryn liked this picture. The caption of the picture said:

"Will miss my buddy. Looking forward to my trip to Mexico next week."

It is the holidays. Everyone seems to be traveling to places for Christmas. Kathryn has an older brother who lives in Mexico City. Antwan has been dating her for 3 weeks. She seems flustered and disoriented packing. They have sex. The next day she seems nervous. She kisses Antwan goodbye and leaves for Mexico.

While in Mexico she texts Antwan throughout the day. All day every day. Constant pictures. She is very into Antwan. But at one point she says she misses him but also loves Mexico so much she wants to return in the Summer for 3 months.

A few months go by. Kathryn texting her ex boyfriend Jim comes up. Antwan has been dating her for 2 months now. In bed he asks her why she needs to text this ex boyfriend to see if he is working at the store he owns. Kathryn says he is just a friend.

She says, "It's no big deal. He helped drop off my brother's Christmas gift."
Antwan says, "In Mexico?"
Kathryn corrects Antwan, "No. He prepared the gift items in his store before I left for me."

Wasn't Jim in Mexico at that point? Antwan then asks why they broke up. Kathryn wraps her arms around her stomach in bed and becomes annoyed saying, "I just don't like him like that. We didn't have good sexual chemistry."

Did Kathryn meet up with her ex in Mexico?

I'm the youngest of 3 and I'm a lot younger. My sister is 13 years older than me and my brother is 8 years older.

My sister always had a drug problem. She even sold her body for drugs. She became a mother when she was 17 (I became an uncle at 5). She can never hold a job, a house, or a life, she constantly had to move back in and take over my bedroom, she always locked me out of my own room to sleep and have sex with her boyfriend at the time. She was verbally abusive to me and say horrible things to me.

My brother would beat the shit out of me when he wasn't in juvenile detention. He would shoot me with his pellet gun, lock me in the basement, and took pictures of me in my underwear (I was too young to know why and I'm still confused about that). He also has a drug problem. He was in and out of juvenile detention and served 3 years in prison for robbery. He also became a parent at 17 and has 4 kids with 3 women, he was abusive to all of his partners.

Our mother is emotionally abusive and doesn't know how to manage her stress. She would blow up at me because my siblings were stressing her out. Throughout my childhood, my needs were always shoved aside because of my sibling's issues, I never had a day about me, my mother's attention was always on my siblings or their kids. I've had birthdays, Christmases, Halloweens, Easters, etc because of my sibling's bullshit. Now my childhood is over before I had a chance to have one.

Right now my brother is having issues. He's in town doing drugs with my cousin and has to go to jail for domestic violence (complicated issues) and I just want my drill that he borrowed back. My mother and I just had an argument about me wanting my drill back while he's having a crisis. She asked me "do you even care about what your brother is going through?" and I decided to be completely honest and answered "I don't, and I'm tired of pretending that I do."

If you already know the backstory skip down to where it says "update". If not read below.

So for those who don't know I'm SINGLE but started having a secret affair with a female classmate who didn't tell me she had a boyfriend until after we'd had sex. I kept it going for a while and she got so hot and loved the situation so much that she MOVED IN with her boyfriend because the 'hidden' nature of the affair excited her so much.

WITHIN ONE FUCKING WEEK she slipped up and send him a graphically sexual text message that was meant for me. She had already given up her apartment but her boyfriend threw her out anyway. She then insisted that start an official relationship with her and let her move into my place. I told her I DO NOT get into official situations with cheaters. She ended up having to stay with her sister and her brother-in-law who apparently see her as common trash now, so she responded by immediately threatening me and saying we would "embarrass me" in class, we're also teammates on a very important school project. The first time we had sex was actually some impulsive insanity that happened while we were working on the project. Well she did try to embarrass me.

So the girl I was having sex with moved in with her boyfriend and like a moron sent her man a message that was meant for more. She didn't have my phone number (we spoke 100% over a fake facebook account I have) so unless she wants to go and tell him who I am, he has no way to find out. NOW, he's thrown her out of his apartment even though she already broke lease on her old place so she's with her sister and brother-in-law. She's trying to start a relationship with me and move in even though I've made it CRYSTAL clear that I don't get into official relationships with cheaters. Now she's playing the victim game, saying men are all dogs, that I used her for sex and all this other bullshit. We're off of class for this week since it's a Wednesday class and yesterday was veterans day - but she's threatening to "embarrass me" next week in class if I cut her off completely.

What's some advice incase she tries to #metoo me? We're still team partners on a school project that's not going to be complete until December. Hit-and-run sex is NOT rape, so I have no idea what she's planning.