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I'm 20, i've never had a girlfriend and i'm beginning to fear that i'm an unaware incel or nice guy. I did research and even asked a few close friends what they thought. But my research was inconclusive and while friends don't think I am, their observations might be a little biased. So i'd like to get a unbiased opinion.

I didn't care about girls until I was 13; i've have asked 3 girls out over the past 7 years. They all said: "i'm a nice guy... just not their nice guy". Their wording is concerning, but as I was good friends with these girls at the time, they might have just been letting me down gently.

I struggle to socialize, let alone flirt. I would sometimes buy girls small gifts before asking them out, but that was because I was unsure how to flirt;it wasn't: "but you have to love me! I spent £ on you!" I never thought I was owed a girlfriend; if I liked them and thought there was a chance they might like me, i'd ask them out.

Incels/nice guys tend to hate women after rejection, but I don't. I would be hurt at the time (especially the first) but that's their decision; they have a right to turn me down. A couple girls have asked me out before, but I didn't feel the same way and turned them down. I feel bad, but i'm also in my right to turn down relationships where I don't feel the same way right?

While I look forward to sex, it isn't the only thing I look for in a woman: I don't care if she doesn't have the biggest boobs or butt. It might sound cheesy, but what I care about most is companionship. A partner to share my life with. I wouldn't fixate on sex so much if it wasn't for me being single at age 20 not being the social norm.

I'd like to think i'm not an incel or at the very least, i'm not anymore. If I am, please help me stop.

I think it's more to do with my social ineptitude and lack of confidence which make me feel I have nothing to offer a girl. Iv'e been going to the gym, having therapy and taking up new hobbies in the hopes of improving myself.

So a lot of my girlfriend's outfits, though they don't really show anything inappropriate (no boobs spilling out, no butt cheeks), it's still a lot of skin. She still very often shows her legs in shorts that cover her butt but offer no leg coverage, she often shows her stomach, she often shows her back, she often shows her feet, she often shows her shoulders, and she often shows a bit of cleavage (only a bit, but it's there).

And to the gym, she wears shorts of the same length, a sports bra, and a sheer shirt... the sheer shirt doesn't really cover anything, it's just so her bare skin and sweat doesn't get directly on the equipment. And she takes it off on the threadmill, or when she's just gonna be running around her neighborhood. And to the beach... she wears a regular bikini. It shows a bit of cleavage, but not a lot. And the bottoms are a bit cheeky, but not over the top.

Even her most modest outfits... a regular blouse, and long pants... the long blouse never completely covers her stomach. It shows a bit, and if she lifts her arms, her belly button shows.

And unless it's a professional occasion, my girlfriend doesn't modify the way she dresses around children or her elders. Like with her much younger relatives who are children, she just has fun with them and plays with them in her regular crop top and short shorts. And when meeting my parents, she dressed the same way, and was very respectful to them. Her attitude changes to be appropriate, but not her clothing.

We live somewhere hot, Orlando Florida... and I've always been rather prude. Plus, she doesn't actually ever do anything dirty. So maybe there's no problem in the first place. But I can't help but be curious. I've associated skin with being promiscuous, but it's not exactly true.

When I personally told her about it, she just laughed and said she never even thought about it. She said it was just the style she found the cutest and most comfy.