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Me and my girlfriend started dating about four months ago and everything was great. Her old boyfriend ended up coming into town from the military for a week and she was texting him constantly and they went out to eat twice. I was pretty irritated by it but we got over it after about a week.

Since then we went out or we hung out at each others houses three or so times a week. We never had a sexual relationship really and we hadn't been in but two arguments, that was when she was talking to him and one other small one. We ended up breaking up a week ago (sort of). She said we should just be friends and that she needed to figure herself out and that I was an amazing guy and sometimes she thought i was too good for her. Yet she said we should still go to prom which is a short ways away. We both see each other every day four periods a day and have the same mutual friends. She has started crying a couple times when I was around her. I asked her why and she said because she was kind of regretting her decision.

The last couple days we hadn't said much but hi and bye and now we talked a little more about the break up and she said she was kind of sure. However she started crying again.

Even though it is just High School, I still like her and care for her very much. The breakup wasn't out of hate or anything. It was just very unexpected and out of the blue which is what I don't understand. I don't know if I should still try or just move on? I don't want to lose something that was really great, over this.