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I am getting disappointed of men not wanting a relationship and just something casual.

He told me he is more looking on casual side than a relationship if he is being honest with himself and me. I told him I am looking for a relationship. He sounded unsure what he wants. That was my red flag but he is pretty persistent with me.

We had 3 dates and they all went pretty well. We actually spent the last entire weekend together. It was so fun and we had a blast. He held my hand in public the entire time. He took me out to so many places and spent a lot of time together. We are pretty sweet together and very lovey-dovey in public.

I hate it but I am starting to fall for him. He had been treating me really well. He puts me first in a lot of situations and was a complete gentlemen. I felt loved and wanted. It feels like a serious relationship. Before me, he had been in long term relationships. He comes across as a relationship type of guy, but he is telling me he wants something more casual.

Since he already said it casual, I should not be expecting much. But I can’t help it and asked him out next weekend. Do you think I can change his mind about being casually dating? Do you think he’s only saying casually because he’s unsure? Should I keep dating other guys?

I know that me and this guy first started texting on February 17th, we only met one time during college ( that was last Wednesday), and we’re not dating yet we’re just texting but i was wondering if i should ask him if he is okay with slow moving relationships? Because even though on my bumble bio i made it clear that guys that just want sex will be disappointed maybe he still might try and i also don’t want the same mistake to happen as it did with my ex ( i told my ex that I was looking for a relationship not something casual but for him he had sex right away in relationships and for me i never have had sex so maybe i should’ve made that clear)

I’ve been speaking to someone from a dating app for about a week. He tends to message me first, wishes good night/ morning etc. We video chatted earlier this week and spoke for a while. My thing is, there is usually a part of the day where he takes a few hours to respond. And that drives me CRAZY. When I asked if he wanted casual, he told me he was not sure and would like to see if something blossoms.