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So basically this man is 58 years old. His wife is 57, and his daughter is 25. The daughter announces gleefully that she is pregnant, but a few days later the fiance aged 27 dropped her off with all of her possessions because he found out through a mutual friend that she cheated on him during a business trip that lasted three weeks and the baby is not his.

The mothers response was to be supportive in such a way where she bashed the fiance and his family. The daughter is posting horrible stuff on Facebook about the fiance and saying men are trash (that old tired bullshit). The father is extremely disappointed and feels like the daughter not only screwed up, but hurt an innocent man in the process and embarrassed the family. The mother actually said things like "you'll find someone better" , "he wasn't man enough anyway" which is disturbing and disgusting. Especially since She doesn't see anything wrong with what she said.

Later that situation evolved into the husband finding out that the wife had an 8 month affair and started divorce proceedings. The daughter has even disowned the father. It seems like mother like daughter.

My own response to it would have not been to comfort her, but to make her understand that what she did was very wrong. that she almost got away with paternity fraud. that she either needs to decide to abort or to go to the guy that she got pregnant with and see if she can raise the child with him. I would not enable her whorish behavior nor would i coddle her.. thankfully my wife agrees with me on this and can't understand why the mother in that situation would behave like she did.

Gag community i would ask you. What would you do in that situation. Attached are two links to the two different posts i am asking about.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/f1bneb/i_58m_feel_like_i_never_really_knew_my_wife_57f/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fizxm8/update_i_58m_feel_like_i_never_really_knew_my/

DUMB yet GENUINE: Dumb as a rock but will never lie, never cheat, never steal, mostly because they don't know how to. You'll have to put up with their shit over and over again but will never have to worry about them betraying you

SMART yet DECEITFUL: A total sociopath, will lie, cheat and steal every step of the way, but knows what to do in any situation. They will stab you in the back without a second thought or remorse, but you'll never notice because they're smart enough to hide it.

Hey guys and girls. I'm in a bad situation right now. I realized that I have feelings for the girlfriend of a friend and I don't know what to do next. We laid in her bed together and she was generally in a really good mood and pretty focused on me. I would have done something if she was single, but she's with a buddy so I did nothing for honor. I also notice that she is interested but I am unsure about her boyfriend. I've have heartaches since last week, but since the day I was at her home she ignores me and started to invest more in her relationship. Her boyfriend isn't a really good one for her and there are rumors that he has already cheated on her. I don't really know what to do next. Some friends have given me the advice, that I need to talk about my feelings with her, but I think that's a bad idea cause it's romantic but I think that it wouldn't work, because she would think "what a fool. He has feelings but the didn't kiss me when he had the opportunity". What would you do or what have you experienced as the best most effective way to get together with her? Maybe there are guys here who have had the same experience before or girls who might give me some advice what would work for them as they were in her situation. Thanks😕