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Search Results: emotionally unavailable
My boyfriend of 8 mos is so emotionally unavailable that I feel like I'm not "allowed" to love him?
He asked me to be exclusive with him. I feel like he did it out of obligation. He says he's not comfortable with "love" but on a couple drunken nights he said he loves me. I can't believe him. I didn't respond and I'm not...
lakelly
Xper 5 Age: 48 What does it mean when a guy says he's keeping you around?
He says he likes the way you look, but not the fact that you're shy. He doesn't want anything romantic and doesn't want to hurt me yet reaches to hold my hand and kisses me every time we say goodbye in the morning. He...
Anonymous
(36-45) friend turned boyfriend weirdness?
So there's this guy that I randomly met at a party. And he's into event planning so he's always busy and around girls. The first few times we met he was really into me. And we had sex a few times. But the more I see him,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think I am emotionally unavailable?
I haven't been in a relationship, at all. I'm 24 now. It's not like I haven't had opportunity. I've been asked out. I've been outright told "I would have sex with you" and declined. It's not like I don't want a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can love change a true commitment phobe?
Does anyone know any real stories of commitment phobes or emotionally unavailable people changing?
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why am I more attracted to unstable, broken, emotionally unavailable, players, addicts and drunks?
People tell me liking bad boys is a phase I'll outgrow. Im in my 30's and my latest interest is a heroin addict. Most people would tell me to stay away and I am immature, or need to grow up. But that doesn't help me at...
Anonymous
(36-45) Was my idiot ex in a stable relationship, but trying to have me as a side chick?
He stands girls up, always has excuses. Never is sincere about it. Borrows money off her, never paid her back. Tells her not to go out with friend Dumps her three times in one week saying he's not good enough for her....
Shannon18
Xper 5 Age: 33 Is liking emotionally unavailable men and rejecting available ones a sign of commitment phobia?
I am a graduate student with a very hectic and busy schedule. I am also very tied to my religious culture so I only want to date guys from that background. Whenever I do date by going to social events or online dating...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this guy truly like me, stringing me along or emotionally unavailable?
Here it goes, I'll just try to be concise...Rewind back to October, I met this guy online. We went on a date, sparks flew like mad, chemistry was undeniable and the goodnight kiss was passionate for a good two hours. He...
carinosa2
Xper 4 Age: 51 I recently ended a relationship. Well it was more like an arrangement.
We had great chemistry in bed. Dated and mostly had sex. He called the other night "rapture" which is very heavy but he also told me he is emotionally unavailable as his ex wife cheated on him and he is screwed up from...
kathleen15
Xper 5 Age: 33 Why did he jump into a relationship so quickly?
This guy and I Haven't talked in a month, well I stopped talking to him. He just wasn't treating me right. We saw eachother for 4 months but he never wanted a relationship. We have gone out to dinner. He asked what I...
Anonymous
(30-35) I'm dope sick from morphine, got no money and having lots of social anxiety? what to do?
How to deal with this? I'm freaking starting to feel dope sick because I got no money to buy pills anymore. The people I use to hang out with have fucked me over when I thought they really did care, but always knew in...
Anonymous
(36-45) He's blind to my needs.
I have been in love with someone for about 5 years. He's unable to commit to me and says he isn't ready for a relationship (for one he's still hung up on his ex). Sometimes I feel really lonely and just wish for one...
Anonymous
(30-35) Goth chic advise? In love this sucks, goth chic advise needed?
What do you do to attract an early 30's goth chick you've known since High School that is hard working and very pretty. I love her but she seems emotionally unavailable because of being screwed over so many times? How...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Any advice on dealing with an Emotionally Unavailable Girl?
So I've known this girl for a year now, been pretty good friends for six months or so. Ever since she broke up with her boyfriend, who happens to go to college with her and also is her high school sweetheart, she has been...
wrestling18
Xper 5 Age: 34 Who can a girl make a guy fall for her?
Being detached? Distant? Mysterious? Being independent? Wtf, all the guys I like somehow are emotionally unavailable! :| Help me out guys. PLEASE
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do I feel like I always need to talk to girls?
It seems that I am always talking to girls, hanging out with them, etc. Is there a reason why I'm always trying to hook up with a girl? I'm 16 and it feels like everything I do is life and death. I've never had a...
Gahanan
Xper 5 Age: 28 I've been single for almost 2 years and I have no idea how to get out there.
I had a 3 year relationship through high school that ended very poorly about 3.5 years ago. Since then I've only dated one other guy and it wasn't much of relationship. It lasted two months and he was more of just a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Just after some general opinions, anyone welcome.
I've been dating this man for bout 8 months now, he's 8 years my senior. It hasn't progressed much, and anytime it has I've called it off due to my emotional unavailability, he seems emotionally unavailable himself. So...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can I change my boyfriend from stop making everything about him?
My boyfriend is definitely plays the aggressive opposed to the passive in our relationship. When he gets angry he takes a day (sometimes longer) to get over things, whereas I am over things within hours. When he is angry...
SkB24
Xper 5 Age: 40 