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When we were best friends in high school... it was easy. We were stuck in the same school, we'd run into each other every day... so he'd have to forgive me, when we fought, and move on.

And we always fought. We were the kind of friends that were irritated by each other, more than happy with each other. But even then, we both valued each other over everyone else. And his opinion was priceless to me. Our arguments were always a few angry comments and then we'd cool off, or change the subject... Ugh... it's hard to explain. But both of us were the type of people that thrived on conflict, so it didn't mean we hated each other... even though it might look that way in the moment... And when we were good, we were great! Laughing, making fun of everything, playing games with each other. Anyway, that was a (poor) sum up of our relationship. :)

If he really was angry at me... I'd give him space until he didn't look mad and then I'd say something funny to make him laugh... And it usually worked! He'd be grumpy for awhile, but then in a day or two, he'd be back to his hilarious self.

Now that he lives an hour away... I haven't seen him since we had that fight a few years ago. The last text he sent me was him asking me why I left high school (which I did for other reasons), and saying he didn't want me to leave (which was really, REALLY, out of character for him, btw).

Anyway... I miss him. Badly. Like... I feel like part of me is missing, I miss him so bad. He's too stubborn to contact me again after I told him I really was leaving. I actually ran into him... but I couldn't talk to him because I was at work. He didn't try to text me... I did... after that day. But after I asked what I wanted to know at the time... I thought I would cut ties with him. Because talking to him hurt.

I don't know if I'll be able to talk to him yet, but... when I do...

If you were him, and you saw a girl that you knew a long time ago, go out of her way to reconnect with you... Would that turn you off? Is it unappealing? I don't feel like it's "chasing him" to want to hang out... but... perhaps it is.

My boyfriend is a liar by far. However the first time we started dating I had complete trust in him, then recently I found out about some girl he cheated on me with. She said they had sex once, but in his defense we weren't dating at the time, but the rest of the time (when we were dating) they were talking through text and everything he told me he told her. They were in a relationship, I don't know who was in a relationship first, but a whole year went by and I knew she was somebody he was cheating on me with because, being a girl I stalked his fb. I know stupid, but hey I began to lose trust. Well after I found out, he began to cry and beg for me, she said he didn't even fight for her. Well, I was in Washington at this time because my sister is in the army so I hated that I found this out when I'm out of state. Anyways I'm back now, I forgave, because I'm stupid. Well now, I have a hard time trusting him, he's my first for everything and he knows that yet he took advantage of this, knowing he's a complete asshole. I don't know why guys are like this. Anyways I found out that he is liking tons of girl pics and commenting on girls pages, saying oh you look so cute, wish you were my wife, nice abs, blah blah blah. All these girls are from the Philippines, not even in the USA. But he does have tons of girl friends close to where he lives and in the city, which is where he works and I live. I guess my question is, should I not assume he's cheating? Or should I just call it quits because I've already given so much? I even stopped talking to him yesterday because he was too busy playing his game instead of talking to me, so all day yesterday and now today he hasn't messaged. I feel like I should just break up with him, but he always cries or begs me not to go and says I'm his "wife." We are both 20, well just turned 20.