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We have been together for 1.5 years. No kids/not married. Still live with our parents. I'm 19 she's 18. It's only been about 3 months but it's starting to get to me. She got her first job in February (which is around when this began). Since then, she puts no effort into our kisses, cuddling, She never wants to have sex anymore, etc... We have had sex only 2 or 3 times the last 3 months. We used to have sex 5+ times a week.

Everytime I try to initiate sex, she either subtly turns me down or says she's too tired. I hate sounding needy but I'm starting to get sexually frustrated. Like I said before, it's her first job (part time) so she might not be used to the work thing yet, but I work a full time construction job and make almost 3x the hours she makes, I'm tired AF when I get home but I ALWAYS make time for her (even if she doesn't seem to appreciate it anymore). I hate saying this but I have been considering letting her go. I don't want to break up because of sex but I just don't feel wanted.

The only thing that's holding me back is that I love her with all my heart. She says she does too. But it doesn't feel like it. I have been fighting for us so hard but she seem to be not attracted to me. Maybe she loves me but isn't attracted to me? I don't know but it really hurts me

Please tell me I'm wrong. We've been dating for over a year now (but known each other for 3 years). I wouldn't cosider us dating tho. We're always talking about the future (with both of us being together) and starting a family. I would take a bullet for her

But recently she has not been putting effort into our kisses. I've asked her why and she always says it's her breathe and thinks it's embarrassing or she'll just say she's tired. But... I just don't feel wanted anymore. She just gives me a quick peck and turns away. Her kisses don't feel the same anymore. I understand she's tired from working but I've never been too tired to show affection even in a small way.

Sometimes I try to hug her but she doesn't hold it for very long. When I try to initiate sex, she tries to lead me away. She won't initiate any sort of phusical contact very often. I don't know if I'm just an attention whore but it really hurts. I would tell her but we just got over a kinda big fight. Should I tell her?

(This has been going on for 2 weeks now)