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My boyfriend (of 2 years) dumped me last night
This morning I texted him and tried calling him

I texted this message to him:
"Hey this is my last message for u for you to move on, you hurt me so much, you broke up then blocked me on everything, I tried everything in the relationship but I guess I wasn't good enough for u, so f*ck you, Im gonna go out on a date tonight with the guy you hate and going to f*ck him too afterwards, have a nice life"

Would sleeping with another guy help me get over him?
Help me move on faster?

I met this guy on June 2018. I felt in love fast to him and I know we had sex too soon. We had a relationship with this person, however after weeks he comes to confess that he has a girlfriend previously than me. I get mad because I thought I was the only one and we had sex & even gave my virginity to him. I let him choose but he did not choose me first but his girlfriend. He wants to let me wait for a month to break up his girlfriend. But I did not believe him after he told me that he still loves his girlfriend so much. I deleted our mobile contract and even unfriended him on social media but never blocked him.
its been almost 3 months and 1 week since we have not talk with each other.

We happened to met one of his friend and she told me he recently went back together with his ex girlfriend and warned me not to meet or talk to him again ever. He was just using me for sex.
i don’t know why her friend treated me that way , when in fact I also become his girlfriend.

But honest speaking , I miss him and I tried meeting someone new but still I can’t get off him in my mind. I want to communicate but I am afraid he already moved on or might as well her friend is right that he was only using me for sex.

Few months from now , I was given an opportunity to live in another country. And maybe that would be the time that I should forever forget him.

i am so confused if I should talk to him again or not. Or I should wait for him to communicate , since we know at the first place it was his mistake.

whats on my mind right now is to wait for him to communicate first in order to be safe. But if he never communicates again , then maybe I should forget him already

Assuming you really liked her but you moved things too fast, and she went with it and now you're scared of how serious things are getting (and you still really like her as a person). Is it possible for her to reel you back in, and how can she do it? When a guy pulls away I think it's done forever, and it's not true. If I just be independent (like I am) and don't give him extra attention, and show him I'm having fun without him can that reel a guy back in?

Yes you read right this is about a girl and I'm a girl. First off, I've known Monique since we were 15 (we are both 23 now). I thought I was straight until I got close with her. Monique is a lesbian and a little tomboyish. We became close as friends in high school and I even started to like her! This made me question my sexuality big time. She rejected me because she saw me as a friend and I was 100% okay with that and quickly moved on!

Fast forward to now,
We are both 23. We recently got back in touch after all these years and we have caught up. :) it was nice to have my friend again! I've dated guys between then and now and have been attracted to guys. We are both single at this time. The more I've been talking with her... The more my crush for her is developing. I'm confused because 1.) Am I interested in girls too?
Also, she's been saying things that make me question if she feels the same. I'll give you some examples:
I was talking about how I wanted a back rub (in general)
Her response: You're about to catch these magic hands ☺ hahaha
And I said: Awwww I thought you were serious lol
And she said: Well I was but I didn't want to sound weird 🤦but you can catch the magic hands anytime.
Then later we planned to go to a concert and she promised me that it would be fun for me.
Then I was talking about how I have a tummy because I'm chubby. She said "No you don't. You're perfect!"
Then I was talking about cuddling weather and how I needed to cuddle with my someone and I wanted it to be her. I then immediately text back that I was sorry for sounding weird. She said "Well if I'm not a weirdo to you... Then you're not a weirdo to me. 😉 I'll be your cuddy buddy ☺ haha." I'm just confused because she could just be nice and she calls me 'girl' and I do that with my other female friends... Help me?