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he was sent to work in my branch last week. We started talking and he was asking about my family, my life, if I had a boyfriend... I was telling him I’m tired of my flat mates and I’d rather live with one person. He told me he wants to move out soon too and we could find something together. We kept on talking. m and he asked for my number. The same night he messaged me to make sure I’m serious about moving in together and I said yes. After two days he found me on fb too. And the next day he called to ask if I wanted to go for a viewing with him but I was working. I messaged him after two days to check if he went to see the place. He said yes but it wasn’t nice. I apologised again for not being able to go with him but he told me not to worry. He said he hopes he will find a nicer place soon. After that, I went to his work place to get something for my work. One guy was talking to me and my guy joked ‘stop flirting mate’. The guy didn’t know what to say so I just joked he missed me a lot. Yesterday I was really tired and I think he called me from across the street but I just looked up and kept walking. I don’t want him to think I’m not interested. But is he interested? I’m thinking of calling him today on my break and ask if he’s gonna work on Monday so if he’s free we can hang out and make some plans closer to Monday? I’ll tell him that I asked some friends to find a place for us too

Is there ever a time where it's too LATE to say "I love you"? It's been going on almost a year and a half--and he keeps claiming he only sees me "as a toy" (but his actions speak louder than words)! He also asked if I had feelings for him; which I SAID I liked him a lot. Since then, he's acted a lot "nicer" and more worried about it ending etc. I'm scared that my friends with benefits/casual boyfriend can't truly love someone because he witnessed a divorce... and each parent remarrying, as well as his brother getting married (who now avoids him).

His past girlfriends have been short-lived, cheated on him OR acted like they really didn't want sex with him anymore! He's also kinda has a BAD reputation; so it's really hard for him to hold on to a girl for more than a few months... but with me--it's standing the test of time. He only seems to know how to use people. Now, if anything we're "using each other" or so it looks like that from HIS point of view. To my family, it looks like he's my actual boyfriend etc.

In reality, I'm in love with him. I feel like telling him I loved him will scare him off. That being said--I feel like he needs to know someone cares about him. It's kinda like a service in which we have sex with each other and it makes us happy... BUT I have similar interests with him... I don't know what to do. I'm NOT going to end this because it's still pretty fulfilling for me :) ! Neither of us really want marriage--EITHER. So, has it gone on too long to tell him how much I really love him?

@Rangers @Danny_dan92 @PrincessGrail

I've posted many questions on my situation, but to summarize I'm a HAM (hot ass mess) infatuated with her TA who is kind, protective of me, was there for me when I was carried to the ER for a concussion - offered to bring me supplies/was super worried/told me how to care for my wounds at home, who compliments my outfits, says "you look great", and tells me he cares about and believes in me. He tells me to get home safe on my bike, since I had the accident.

When he got an injury not long after, I got him pain killers and worried. Another time, through email, when he told me he was swamped with PHD stuff, I joked that I would help but would probably create more work for him. He "haha" 'd and said "no, you're sweet. thanks. :)".

He's super knowledgeable at what he does and super sexy, totally my type.

At our final tutoring sesh - last week Thursday, he told me to let him know if I ever need help next semester for this similar class I'm taking. He'll no longer be my TA.

Today was the final exam aka. last day I see him this semester. After the exam, I handed him a thank you/low-key love letter at the exit, he asked me how the exam went, then hugged me and told me to keep in touch and have a nice summer. I would have kissed him on the cheek but, you know, we were in the lecture hall. ;) He didn't hug any other student who was walking out... But maybe he just hugged me because I gave him a letter, I don't know. Since the last tutoring sesh, he keeps emphasizing how he wants me to keep in touch... Which I'm really happy about because he's willing to keep me around. Today he told me to reach out when I get back after the summer break.

Based on this (and, if you'd like, my previous posts), does he seem interested or just kind/thinks of me as a student?