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I need some advice how to handle my girl best friend's behavior. So me and this girl have been friends for almost two years now. I'm 17 and she's 16. So she's dated two guys in the time we've been friends; we never dated. She left this other guy for me about three weeks ago. So over the next two weeks we've gotten closer and I told her I was gonna give her time, and then we kissed a few times and it kinda freaked us both out, because it was too soon. school started a few days later. And then her attitude towards me completely changed over this last week. After she she was no longer mad at her ex. she wanted to be friends with, because she still likes him. And I can tell you girls that this guys a total jerk and basically used her and it's just been a whole drama the last 5 months, So anyways I tell her to go back to her ex. twice and now I realize that really upset her, so the rest of the week. She basically ignored me and didn't treat me like a person. like I know I love her, she's such an amazing person. She's just confused about everything and is scared of commitment. Does me being almost 18 and her coworker make it impossible. My question is like does she even like me anymore? like how do you go from that within one week? we both said some hurtful things to each other that we meant , but I don't know if it's true. I really would appreciate the help :(