Search Results: talking to unattractive guys

Is a girl being too nice a turn off? no guys seem to take me seriously as a prospect...

Its just my personality to be nice. But when I asked this guy out who I THOUGHT was flirting with me, he got this uncomfortable sort of expression on his face and said no. then he continues talking to me later on, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The Guy FAQ

I see the same few questions from women on this site so often I decided to write an article with answers for these frequently asked questions. Originally I made some elaborate attempts at explaining certain aspects of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

24 10 See More

If guys don't approach me does that mean I'm unattractive or ugly?

When I go out to the bar guys never approach me (except for old creepy guys who are approaching any girl with a pulse). I always see other really pretty girls talking, dancing, hooking up with, and leaving with guys at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do girls check guys out if they are busy talking to their friends?

Example: So I get up to throw my stuff away, and there is a table full of girls talking to each other adjacent to my table. None of them look at me as I walk by... Were they too busy talking to care, or did they just not...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy

Do guys like chasing girls or do they like the girl to make the first move? I've seen a few variations on this one and I've developed a theory about it that perhaps some people may find useful or (I hope) at least thought...

Anonymous

(36-45)

28 24 See More

Do you find cursing unattractive in a female?

The other day I was talking to one of my guy friends when he told me that I would be really hot if I didn't curse.This made me think. I have noticed recently that I have filled my vocabulary with a rather excessive amount...

MusicIsSanity

Xper 5 Age: 32

What are some signs that a guy is unattractive when talking to a girl?

Constant frowning? Short answers? What?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do some men have a PROBLEM with pretty women?

Not to toot my own horn, but I'm a nice looking young woman. Am I saying I'm perfect? No one on earth is, but I'm definitely far from ugly. 1) I dated a guy briefly who was a complete jerk, he treated me like crap and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he find me unattractive?

I've always had the feeling the guy I'm seeing finds me unattractive. As cliched as it sounds, he closes his eyes during sex. That alone doesn't really bother me, because I do that sometimes as well. But I've seen him...

Spectrespecs

Xper 5 Age: 36

So... What's up with the "good-looking/great guy/good guy friend that's never had a girlfriend" type of guy?

You hear girls talking about their good guy friends mostly... kinda being in this category I've gotten this more than once... "Oh you're a great guy! don't ever change!" "Oh you're the best." "Oh you're such a good guy!"...

drummerdude25

Master Age: 35

Guys - How do you know you are the "safe guy"?

If you aren't sure what a "safe guy" is then its basically the guy a girl can have on the back burner who is unattractive (at least to her) and no other girl would want. She doesn't have to worry about you finding...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Thoughts on plenty of fish?

i recently signed up for plenty of fish and I was just wondering if anyone had any thoughts on the site. not to sound cocky, but I am a pretty good looking guy-- I have dated attractive women and have girls tell me I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What does this mean? Am I getting my hopes up for nothing?

OK… I was ‘in school friends’ with this guy since 7th grade (I'm now in 11th)… had a little crush on him then (he was the geeky nerdy type)… he moved after 8th grade… and over the summer he friend requested me on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: what do you think about girls with streaks of color in their hair?

I'm talking a streak in their hair or a color (purple, red,etc..) what do you think about that. Cute? weird? unattractive? just what do you think?

KUgirl15

Xper 5 Age: 35

Anyone up for placing themselves in some complex flirting scenarios?

Just some scenarios I made up for a story/research I'm writing which places emphasis on body language and attraction. Anyone up for a challenge? This would be extremely helpful to me if you could come up with some ideas....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Do guys find it unattractive if the girl texts you first? Or do they find it clingy?

This guy and me have been texting for about 2 months (he also calls sometimes) and we finally hung out the other day and it was pretty fun (he kept telling me I looked really nice), but he used to text me a lot and lately...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I deal with a hot friend?

My best friend is very pretty and has double d's. Whenever we are around guys, it's all they notice and all they talk about. It seems like every guy we meet is into her and not me. I've even had guys who I thought liked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is she doing and why? And how should I respond?

I'm taking a class that is an elective that only a few people take. On the first day there was this girl - a loud, extremely outgoing girl from Russia... she's not unattractive but if it weren't for the way she dresses...

Anonymous

(30-35)