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Search Results: approaching women with confidence
Women don't like me yet I've tried everything, help?
Hi all First off I am really telling the truth here So Basically nobody shows any interest past "Hi" or it gets to two dates and they go for someone else. or a month and they cheat. and I feel like I'm moving away...
Anonymous
(36-45) Advice for Ugly Duckling Syndrome?
I am pretty shy when meeting new people. I get awkward and don't really know what to say at some points. When talking about things that I find interesting I definitely hold the conversation, but when there's nothing I...
Anonymous
(36-45) GIRLS: I've gained weight, girls notice...should I feel as embarrassed as I think?
I remember back in high school (2 years ago) I was generally fit (220 at 6'2), I found girls highly attracted to me everywhere but 2 years later, It appears I've let myself go, I gained about 70 pounds since..so I'm at...
massaffect
Xper 3 Age: 35 Do men let women get away with more?
A lot of times when I see or hear about other people's relationships, it seems like men put up with a lot of things from women that I would never stand for if I were in their situation. There are a number of posts on...
selfishstars
Master Age: 40 How do I get my confidence back?
hi everyone, hope all are well! Im 24 y/o guy and last summer a girl I was with for 2 years and loved and cared for, thought was the one I guess, broke up with me over the phone the day after we got back from a holiday...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm tired of being so shy towards women, any tips?
hi, I'm 23 years old and I've been a shy guy all my life. it's very frustrating, because it has made my dating life really nonexistent and difficult. I have almost no female acquaintances while many of my guy friends have...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Chase Theory: A Compliment
This article is in response to The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy . Notes about Response: Although my responses to articles are usually sharply critical, this author has actually moved me. This...
jdcpa
Explorer Age: 39 Introvert needs to find women alone?
I have recently begun my freshman year in college. My life is practically set from here on in (education / career / overall lifestyle wise) and I have all that I could wish for... except a girlfriend. The biggest problem...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does race affect approaching women?
I'm white and told I'm pretty attractive. However, since I've gotten to college, the majority of the guys that approach me in person are black guys. I'm attracted to them so it's no big deal and I like it, but I started...
Anonymous
(36-45) He completely broke down while breaking up with me.
This is a little complicated so bare with me... I have been with this guy for 5 months, but we knew each other as friends for a while before we started a relationship. He had times where he would need alone time which I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think being yourself is bullsh*t?
OK here's the problem with being yourself for a man. Men grow up and they are constantly told that women should like you just the way you are. But what tends to happen is that men grow up watching television and playing...
superdudeman
Explorer Age: 48 Love creates equality but seeks it not
It seems no matter how much evidence there is to the contrary some people still try to fit square pegs into round holes. They say the beginning of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. This...
Gregs
Yoda Age: 46 Guys hitting on girls - Seems like it's better to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission?
Well despite the so called "mens/womens' equality it's really still up to men to make the first move and to take the romantic risks in most social settings. Some women are a little more forward nowadays which is nice....
Anonymous
(36-45) White american women help?
WHITE AMERICAN WOMEN HELP? hi I'm from England I'm 24 and I was chatting to an American girl online .we hadn't seen each other before and then we exchanged pics of ourselves and she she just stopped writing to me and now...
ryan007
Xper 3 Age: 40 Trying to pick up a girl in college?
How to raise my confidence to be able to approach and get a date with a girl I find attractive in college. One of my major problems is that I get a good start with a girl, but then it is like she starts to do what the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ladies, would you reject me harshly?
Hello, I want to approach ladies and get to find the girl that fills my life with joy. I am shy. With not very strong self confidence. But I would like to hear from you ladies... If I approach you in a non jerk type...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Shy Guys And The Shy Complex
Okay shy guys, we get it. You're shy. But don't be. I realize that is easier said than done, but if you make a real effort to come out of your shell, girls will notice and you will find yourself with options you...
Enchanted_x3
Xper 6 Age: 36 What's going on? I thought guys mostly cared about looks?
I'm 17, and I have zero experience in dating or relationships. A few years ago this didn't surprise me, because I was not cute at all! I put virtually no effort into my appearance, I wore plain baggy clothes, had boring...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can lack of experience leave you SOL?
So I'm 23, kind of a reserved and introverted guy, never had a girlfriend / kissed a girl blah blah blah. I'm not complaining about it. I'm not feeling desperate about it or using it as a reason to beat myself up inside....
sa230e
Guru Age: 39 The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy
Do guys like chasing girls or do they like the girl to make the first move? I've seen a few variations on this one and I've developed a theory about it that perhaps some people may find useful or (I hope) at least thought...
Anonymous
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