Search Results: emotionally distant

How to deal with a dad who always wants to be right

I love my dad and I think that he's a great man overall- he provides for us, loves us unconditionally and is very religious. HOWEVER- he makes it SO hard for us and everyone else to be around him. He always feel that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do I feel myself guilty after this?

Long story short, we have been together for 5 months and one day, just out of the blue she tells me that she is getting married to another guy. During first 2 months we did chat then she went on vacation where she met the...

nvestan

Xper 7 Age: 41

Guy's Behavior

If he really likes me would he be telling me to talk to other guys too?

me: i know you want to go slow and not rush, I get that and I agree and think its a good idea but by going slow do you mean talking casual for the next 4-5 months and then you come back from deployment and we can meet...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Was any of this real?

I was in a relationship for 4 months, during which: 1. We got together fairly quickly 2. He told me he thought I was perfect for him, that he thought it was love at first sight and that he might've proposed if we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Was I just someone he f***ed?

A few months ago, I met this guy and we clicked immediately. We had a relationship (which he refused to define) for a few months, after which we ended it because I was moving 10,000 miles back home. In the first few...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

After 5 years I'm convinced he's never loved me.

OK I'll try to keep this brief. Been off and on w him for 5 years. He's the type that is cold, distant, emotionally detached. When some argument arose, they stemmed from his behavior/actions. Being disrespectful,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Flirting

Help with girlfriend feeling loved?

I've been dating my current girlfriend for over two months, and things, I thought, have been great. Compared to my past relationships, where my exes were fairly emotionally distant (or only liked limited amounts of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Is this what you consider to be going through the motions?

Here are the details of the situation, click the link: link basically my boyfriend of two years broke up with me randomly It's been a little less than a month. He said we aren't compatible and he thinks he loves me...

lyssalady13

Xper 6 Age: 35

Dating

Doomed to be the rebound girlfriend?

Ive been dating a guy for 6 months, I thought he was wonderful and we were incrediby well matched, but two months ago he started becoming distant and I found out last week that, although he likes me as a person and finds...

louberr

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

Ladies do you think it's wussy for a guy to send his girlfriend good morning texts?

Is it wussy for a guy to send his girlfriend good morning texts, text everyday and ask how her day has gone? I'm not pushing for sex because she hasn't dated many guys and I'm a virgin that only wants to sleep with one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I just walk away from all this? Or should I try to explain to my recent ex that the other one is lying?

So, my girlfriend was very jealous, as pretty controlling. And I'm about 99% sure emotionally abusive as well. We split up once before, and right after she slept with another guy. I heard about and called her on it after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Ladies are any of you turned off by more aloof, quiet men?

I mean the kind that still seem very confident, are successful, dress nicely, but are in general emotionally distant from most of the people around them.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Thinking about becoming an escort.

I'm at university and working two jobs, barely getting by. I've been thinking about it for a while. I've done paid modelling. I know I have the looks and I'm also extremely emotionally distant. Just a few times a week to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

He Looked Up Someone He Used to Like

I posted here a few days ago saying how my boyfriend of 5 and half year seems distant. He is 37, I am 36 and in the five and half years we have been together it has been a rollercoaster. I have found texts from other...

samantha39

Xper 4 Age: 51

Flirting

When does a girl decide she wants a relationship?

So I had a few week fling with a girl who I knew previously. We hit it off amazingly but she was moving 1000miles away. We had an instant comfort. We stayed the night at each others places(no sex) kissed frequently, held...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriend doesn't want marriage?

samantha39

Xper 4 Age: 51

Girl's Behavior

How much longer should I try? Or should I give up already?

So I met this girl about a month ago and admittedly I moved very quickly emotionally and physically (no sex mind you). I spilled my heart out to her and made her a priority in my life. We clicked so easily and well it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Am I making the right choice avoiding a girl? Or is how friends act now?

OK, I've been pulling away from a girl like mad. We work at the same workplace too. I like her but I have to drop her to save myself some mental anguish. After I admitted I liked her we started fooling around, she came...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

Do I suffer from bad experience trauma?

I have been married for almost 1 year. My wife has all of a sudden started taking the extra time to look extra good for work, no longer calls me on breaks, acts distant at home and doesn't wanna go anywhere together and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Don't know what to do, he cheated & hardly apologized, I need closure!

My boyfriend & I had been going through a rough patch for quite a while, he suddenly became distant & wanted to spend less time with me and more time with his friends. Every time I tried to talk to him he would say that...

Madamspeaker

Xper 5 Age: 38