Search Results: ex asked me for money

today my boyfriend came over since we haven't seen each other for a week (ive been busy) and we talk about our week, work, university studies, etc
and then he said he wanted a second job to save up more money. he wanted a job at this big supermarket here but there are heaps in different locations and he doesn't mind which one. and randomly i said "imagine your ex girlfriend works at that supermarket'" and he laughed and said "she actually does. but she works at a different location" and i said as a joke "ooo maybe we should go there. pay her visit" and then he looked surprised and was kinda happy about it and said "omg babe lets go. i had actually thought about it but never asked you because u would think bad about it or maybe think i was showing off. but since u brought it up, if u wanna go, we can. i would so go" and he laughs. and then i was abit skeptical and said "why did u thought of it anyway? did u want to see her?" and he said "no, i just like to annoy people and she's the type that doesn't want someone else to be happier and u know me, i like to annoy people"
A little background info: Him and his ex were only together 2/3 months until she left him for another guy. They dated 3 years ago.
So question is... why do u think he thought of it? why do u think he was keen to go? is it coz he wanted to see her? show me off? show her that he's got a gf? or something else?
And should we go there?

so... yes this is a questions I am thinking about. I would not tell someone or ask someone about their opinion in real life though.

so I am a stay at home mom to two kids... all day long and anyways My Husband is the only one that makes all the money. He gives me 100% power over all the money, and I save most of our money in investments and ROTH IRA and so on and so forth. I also spend as I like and I don't have to ask him and he does the same (granted it's within the monthly budget, that I MAKE).

I have friends whom they are married to their husbands but they are also stay at home mom/wife and they have zero access to money... one girl told me it is because his last two ex wives messed his finances up... I don't know about the other women... it might be her husband thinks she is incompetent with money... but they have to do "side" jobs or what not to make their money (one does house cleaning on the weekends, the other does at home consignment sales online)... both these women clean the house, and do errands... cook etc. So it's not like they are not doing anything. I know the one that cleans on the weekends has her house in tip top shape and also her cooking is awesome...

would you share your money? Or not?