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Weve been dating for a year now, and we are really serious about each other. I want to marry him. I've never wanted to marry someone before. I have never had such a connection with anyone in my entire life. And he really wants to get promise rings (2 promises- for marriage, and no intercourse til we are married).
I'm asking this question, because, I have some abandonment issues. In previous relationships, I never let myself get truly attached. I was in a two year relationship, and when I broke up with him, I didn't even cry... I was that unattached.
But this guy... He completely swept me off my feet. He is my best friend, we laugh together for hours on end. We connect on such a deep level, I can tell how he's feeling without even looking at him. I am finally in love. He looks at me like I am absolute gold, that I am a treasure, an angel. He calls me his queen and princess and takes such good care of me.
And if he left me, I'd be so devastated. I don't want to take this step, and then be left wishing I had stuck to blocking people out.
I am in therapy and doing really, really well. I trust him. But a tiny voice is nagging at me, and I'm afraid of commitment.
Because of this we intend on moving slow. First promise rings, a long engagement, and then finally marriage. I think I'm ready. I love him and I know he loves me. I'm ready to step out of this fear of commitment and this is such a small step that, I think I can do it, and I want to. But I need a third party opinion. So, what do you think?

I met a guy online on Tinder (yeah i know, not the best start) I have never been intested in that app b/c of the reputation for hook-ups only, but I gave it a shot and matched with this guy. He messaged me and within days asked for my number, a day later after texting, he invited me over for dinner. I was ecstatic since the guy is super cute and totally my type. I am 28 and he is 34, anyway so on my tinder profile I clearly stated that I am a single mom in my bio. I assumed he had read it and I showed up to the date assuming he already knew, well he didn't. He asked me if I had roommates, etc and I said no, that I lived alone with my daughter, then proceeded to ask him if he had actually read my bio and he said no, bc he was impressed by my pictures alone. He is really attracted to me since I am a Latina and he is American, it also helps to note here that I am pretty hot (not conceited just a fact).

I thought our date will go sour once he found out I had a daughter and just kinda relaxed and figured I could at least make a friend out of this, but no, he asked me questions about my daughter, including whether her father was involved (which he is not), and how he can't wait to become a father and have kids. Long story short, we had a great time and then started watching tv and I thought about leaving since I figured the being a mom thing turned him off, he tried to make a move and put his arm around me but I kinda did not know how to react so he stopped, then later we both got cold and got a blanket, eventually leading up to cuddling, it felt so good! We cuddled not like strangers on a first date but like as if we had known each other for a while and just laid there watching tv while he caressed my hair and face and eventually started holding my hand. Yes, we eventually felt so comfortable with each other, it lead to very sweet and slow touching to some really nice and comfortable sex.