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So, I've been Reading and doing research about my crush and past relationships.
And I've found that girls make more sense when it comes to getting the girl than guys.

To me, listening to a guy on how to get the girl is like a girl asking me for advice about what she's feeling on her 4th month of pregnancy. I don't know anything about it! I'm not a girl, get my point?

My whole life I've been surrounded by girls, sisters, cousins, aunts, Friends, girlfriends, etc. I have a handful of Friends who are men. Like 4 or 5. But, my whole life girls have come to me. I've never went asking out a girl, it's been always the other way around. And I'm not bragging about it. I've had the luck that the girls I liked or had a crush on, liked me back. Sometimes the relationship didn't worked out, but hey, at least I got to Kiss them.

So, that is my point. You want to get the guy, ask a guy about him.
You want to get the woman, ask a woman about it. It doesn't work the other way around.

I don't know how a woman thinks or why she feels that way, and she doesn't know what I'm thinking or feeling, but we can meet somewhere in the middle.

There is no one size fits all and every person is different, so don't give generalized answers, guys.

Hey guys and girls. I'm in a bad situation right now. I realized that I have feelings for the girlfriend of a friend and I don't know what to do next. We laid in her bed together and she was generally in a really good mood and pretty focused on me. I would have done something if she was single, but she's with a buddy so I did nothing for honor. I also notice that she is interested but I am unsure about her boyfriend. I've have heartaches since last week, but since the day I was at her home she ignores me and started to invest more in her relationship. Her boyfriend isn't a really good one for her and there are rumors that he has already cheated on her. I don't really know what to do next. Some friends have given me the advice, that I need to talk about my feelings with her, but I think that's a bad idea cause it's romantic but I think that it wouldn't work, because she would think "what a fool. He has feelings but the didn't kiss me when he had the opportunity". What would you do or what have you experienced as the best most effective way to get together with her? Maybe there are guys here who have had the same experience before or girls who might give me some advice what would work for them as they were in her situation. Thanks😕