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I believe most of these women's stories, don't get me wrong, especially when more than one women has come forward. But in some instances I really wonder about it.

For example, a few years ago I met a guy at a bookstore. We talked a bit and went out for coffee. Later on I was invited to hang out at his apartment. I asked if I could bring my roommate and let him know it was plutonic and he was fine with that. He picked my friend and I up we went to the grocery store and he met another girl there. None of us had met her before but he invited her along. She seemed nice. We hung out at his decked out condo for a while watched a movie, drank and ate pizza. Then this girl went through his medicine cabinet and took some of his pain meds then she offered some to me and my roommate but we said no. We stayed a little while longer and asked to be taken home. The next morning I received a call from an officer saying that they had questions for me and that my guy friend who happened to be black was being accused of sexual assault. After answering the officers questions (how did I know this girl, how did she get drugs) the case was dismissed because it was discovered that the girl lied about several details of that night during the time that my friend and I were still there. After the call I tried to contacting the girl to ask if she was ok and offer support and she acted angry at me. The guy and his family thanked me for being honest, however we never talked again after that. The girl and the guy both told me that as soon as she stated that she was uncomfortable he took her home. But if #MeToo was happening then would I be seen an apologist for this guy's behavior? Or is it possible that once in a while there's another side to the story?

I am seeing this guy and we are exclusive, according to him. He’s been in relationships and is no longer a virgin (evidently). I am 23 and still am. He said he is afraid my lack of experience is an issue, because he’s been a virgin and knows it is scary. He told me he’d prefer to have sex with someone before falling in love with them to confirm there is an intimate connection. We have done a few things but not full blown sex. However, he mentions that this is “my gift” and I should not feel in a rush to give it up. He says we have a great emotional connection and he has fun with me physically, but the sexual concern on both sides (his drive/experience and my concerns) are a hurdle. However, he says he still wants something long term with me.

I am also afraid that he will end up leaving me after I give it up. I told him this too. I always had this fear of giving it up and the guy walking out. He doesn’t seem that type, he’s treated me good. And says he intends to be with me for the long haul. Is there an issue or is it in my head?
The only issue would be waiting until marriage and I don’t plan to wait that long😳