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Ugh, I hate it when people say your this or that doesn't look proportional to your other body parts... so what. I have really skinny friends who are thin as toothpicks with DDs and they're all real and natural. I've seen girls who grew up in my neighborhood who were early bloomers who had full, round butts and 19 and 20 inch waists. Yes, their waists, arms and everything else were tiny but their butts were plump as hell. Not everything on your body is going to match, women you of all should know that. One of my boobs is a cup size bigger than the other and that's normal. Most guys don't seem to notice though lol. Don't let me start on thick women I've seen walking around with thigh gaps. People, no one is perfect. Everything on your body isn't going to be the same size or 'perfectly proportioned. Just stop!

After a number of not so perfect connections and relationships, that I have experienced firsthand with online dating, I am wondering. I have heard some success stories, and that people do find their true love and match online. Fair enough we all get busy, and online dating could provide with some additional options when looking for SO. My experience so far has been unpleasant to put it politely. I managed to attract either desperate older guys who are willing to marry in a heartbeat for that they are not lonely any longer and have someone in their life, those who are frankly looking for hook-ups and casual flings, or those who either don't know what they want and pretend to look for the same what you are so that they can get at least something from you if they are attracted enough to you.
I have recently removed my details from the site that i was on, due to the above experiences and lack of time for online things now. However, before I decided to do so I was matched with a guy who sounded like potential someone I was hoping to meet one day. We went out once, and going out again.

Sounds like he has had touch luck with online dating as well. I didn't want to tell him about my shit experiences, as i though it would be non-attractive on a first date, so i basically kept it to myself. He, on opposite, told me about his experience without going into too much details but enough to make me questions his respect for women... i am hoping to figure this one out soon enough, so no one wastes time and no one gets hurt.

I SINCERELY, apologise for not appealing to the gay community!!! As much as I like gay guys and girls and have friends who are gay, I think there is a huge difference between relationship of a heterosexual couple and a gay couple.

What has your experience been like?

Cheers

Hi! I am not exactly a school-girl, but current situation definitely makes me feel like one. I just don't understand what could have possibly happened! So basically what happened: I met him over on Tinder (it's 21 century, get over it!), I have started the conversation, and it was pretty obvious that both of us are interested (we were talking for over 2 weeks!), both are curious and logical. Well, a pretty much perfect match! I asked to meet him (not straight forward, i just got him interested and he came), we were talking for a while, and knowing me- it takes time to warm up to people, by the end of "so-called-date" I was feeling really good about it! i fell in love, if you will. We kept chatting over social media, and had really great deep conversations. Then we went for a really long walk. I thought that since i was pretty cold on our first meeting I need to compensate that, and I really wanted to be flirty (just wanted, not really planned it). Both of us apparently enjoyed it, and he even texted me later that evening. We kept talking, and even had one really nice moment when you just feel the other person regardless of distances. Then he went out with friends and EVERYTHING changed. Not immediately, but the distance started increasing. We agreed to meet but it never happened. I truly care about him, and know I could be a bit overwhelming. I started to feel like I haven't given him a chance to show initiative, not enough room. So i started taking breaks, not texting for a day or two... Last time we were talking we touched on a subject that i am really knowledgeable and passionate about, so I made my best effort to explain to him some points. Apparently, being really "silly" I have almost made a mini-lecture over a text. And now he just doesn't talk to me, he didn't even read my last text. I really care about him, but it is painful to be treated like that, I have dignity! I don't feel i can move on. Question is why? And should i move on? i don't know...