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My ex girlfriend and I found true love. Because of this, we hurt each other deeply by our actions. Her intense jealousy made me walk out and out of pure sadness and anger, I went into a rebound relationship planning never to go back. The new girl did things for me that were quite amazing that my ex gf never did and made me appreciate her tremendously. My ex gf came to beg me back and after several days I told her I would come back. At the same time my new gf was getting crazy upset about the situation and I felt terrible dragging someone innocent into my problems. I told my ex gf to give me a little time to let the new girl down easily. My heart was not with her too. During this time though, I unintentionally let my ex gf suffer despite contacting her everyday to try to comfort her and tell her that this will never happen again and that I was sorry. This was the most miserable time of my life, between two girls and letting my true love suffer. I was coming back. After about 2 weeks, I told my ex gf that I wanted us to get back together and fix everything and leave the past behind. She rejected me and said she needed to think things through. 2 weeks later she got a new boyfriend and says that he saved her from killing herself. She seems to never trust me now even though she admits she still loves me, misses me and that the new girl is luckier than her. I told her that I learned a huge lesson from all of this but she is in disbelief and says it will happen again. I know how it feels to lose someone you really loved... How can I ever let something bad happen again? She simply does not trust me. Is there ANYWAY at all to get around this?

We were extremely lucky to have found true love and loved eachother more than ever imagined.

We broke up because i spent too much attention on my friends rather than her and it made her insanely jealous and angry with me all the time. She thought I was flirting with other girls too (my friends which wasn't the case). Everytime we got into arguments about it, she said she would break up with me (more than 5 times). I started to lose faith in our relationship because of these reasons and couldn't breathe anymore so I decided to walk out. After leaving it, I started dating another girl out of pure rebound due to my sadness and anger. A few days later my ex came to beg me back bawling and saying she felt like killing herself. I was still sad and angry but eventually saw that she was sincere and said i will come back, give me a little time. After some time I decided to come back but by this time she said no, she needs to think things through. 2 weeks after that she revealed that she had a new boyfriend and that she was serious with him and never wanted to come back with me again. A month and a half past and I had no contact with her. Eventually she reached out to me under a different name and admitted that she missed me and loved me still. I told her I was happy with my life but I wanted her back. I gave her all the reasons to come back but she says it will happen again. She keeps telling me how safe the new guy is despite her true love and happiness with me.

I learned a huge lesson and I sincerely know what it's like to lose someone you truly love. How could I let it happen again when I know everything that went wrong and know how to fix it.

She says my new girl is luckier than her. She says that she truly loves me but we can not be together again and that even though we will always think of each other, she should only wish happiness for each other. Is she being real or confused and will eventually come back?