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I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

So my boyfriend has cheated on my in the beginning of our relationship. He was in another relationship and had sex with her. He also was asking other girls to be his girlfriend and made out with another girl while dating me. He had phone sex. I caught him and now he is changing his behavior. He went to therapy and gave me access to his accounts. The thing that worries me is now he isn’t putting any effort in the relationship. He won’t call me iniate any conversations first. Won’t fly out to see me because he’s saying he’s broke and doesn’t have the money. He doesn’t iniate anything sexual and he always has an excuse. He said he’s withdrawing because of how much I mistrust him. He did this to his ex girlfriend too. He said he did to her because he didn’t care and that he’s doing it to me because I’m mistreating him and making him feel like I’m going to abandon him. Should I trust by now or am I giving good reasons not to trust him?