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My ex girlfriend dumped me a couple of months ago. The break up caught me completely off guard. Things seemed to be going great, we spent a lot of time together, we talked all of the time and never seemed to run out of things to talk about. Out sex life was great, we had great chemistry from the start, and she seemed really into me. She talked about a future with me, marriage, things she wanted to do together, etc. She is 31 and said she wanted to be married and have a baby by the time she was 34. I always enjoyed these talks and would always participate willingly in the convo. She suggested we take my niece out for a day of fun once my nephew was born, which I was excited to do. She really seems to be planning a life with me and I was fully onboard and cared about her a lot. I always put her needs before my own, would go out of my way to do anything for her, even the littlest things like driving her to wor in the winter so she wouldn't lose her parking spot. I didn't mind sitting in hours of traffic because the time I spent with her was worth it to me.

One day she dumped me out of the blue, we were supposed to go to dinner that night, I had picked up some flowers and champagne for her (she loved those 2 things) because I knew she had a rough weekend due to a death in the family. She texted me and said we needed to talk that night. I show up, she acts normal, I had to ask what the text was about, which is when she finally dumped me. She said she was going to start therapy and "didn't want to take me down that bumpy road" with her, even though I said I wanted to be there for her. She said she was going because she can't figure out why she always ends up running away from relationships, and isn't as happy as she thinks she should be. She told me that I was better to her than any other guy she has ever known, that I did more for her than she deserved, and that there was nothing more that I could have done to be better. (See additional comments for rest of story)

Hi, my ex girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me a week ago, a whole lot has happened the past few months and stuff got really complicated. Basically we live in different countries but visit each other regularly, we were engaged until she broke up with me back in April and that was really my fault, I got jealous and needed reassurances all the time and made a lot of accusations. (She did confess to lying about a lot in the earlier stages of our relationship). Anyway, things got rough after that and I started therapy to get rid of my "demons" and I heard nothing from her for 2 weeks. She contacted me one day as she was upset about something and we decided to try again. I paid for her to fly to Dublin (from the states) and I met her there from UK. The week was amazin apart from a huge fight over a text she got from a guy she apparently had no contact with. She left happy and we spent all our time on the phone together, then she dumped me again because my friends were accusing her of treating me bad etc. again I heard nothin until she sent my sis a message sayin she was pregnant and its mine. We started talkin again n things were goin really well, she kept tellin me how much she loves me and wants me etc. all was good until last week. We lost the baby and she started acting strange (understandably). She called me the night of the miscarriage and said she'd call me tomorrow, well I never heard from her again & instead she deleted everythin tht involved me and is on Facebook 24/7 (my friend is her friend on there). Our mutual friend thinks she is seein someone new but there's not much to suggest she is other than she suddenly disappeared from fb for 48 hrs recently (although she did spend a day on a boat with a new "friend". the reason she stopped talking to me was because I wouldn't tell her who I was going to London with when the reason I was going was to plan a surprise for her (London is her favourite place). Any idea what could be goin on? 10 days without contact now.