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I was watching an episode of Will & Grace when a scene came on. One of Grace's boyfriends dumped her because they thought she had too close of a friendship with her bestie Will, even though Will is actually gay and has no interest in women. If you never watched the show, Will and Grace lived together through most of it. But would you feel uncomfortable if your spouse/SO always hung out and talked with someone who was the opposite sex BUT was also gay?

This question is for women to answer, as well, if you're boyfriend's best friend was a lesbian, would it bother you? I'm not asking if them BEING gay/lesbian is a problem, but that their best friend is a member of the opposite sex. That means they go out all the time, go shopping, talk on the phone, text, SnapChat, gossip, and hang out all of the time without you around. Basically, if they aren't with you, they are with them. Would this annoy you?

I only ask because we talk about spouses/SO/partners not going out with members of the opposite sex one on one that they aren't in a relationship with, but would their sexual orientation make you feel any different? And if so, why?

Just in case you still don't understand the question:

Example 1: John's girlfriend Susan has a best friend named Gary, but Gary is gay.

Example 2: Kristy's boyfriend James has a best friend Maggie, but Maggie is a lesbian.

Let's say you walk in on your boyfriend when he's naked. He runs away and looks like he's about to cry. He says he doesn't want to have sex, he feels uncomfortable being naked around you, he fights you if you try to have sex with him. He cringes, and slightly shakes when you touch him and he's always stiff, and has trust issues.

In your relationship you were dating him for six months and he never asked for sex, never talked about sex. he jerks off at night.

So, would you still date him?

I've been in a relationship with a guy for 7 months. We hit it off immediately. I dint even want a boyfriend but he just endeared himself to me, so i accepted. We spent 12 hours a day together bc he wanted. Its insane i never spend so much time with people, but i tired to just roll with it. He planned dates and we made love we traveled he talked about marriage and kids and said i was his soul mate.

Then his family came to visit and they wanted him to themselves, they didn't like me I don't know why. They were rude to me, i can't explain it but i could just feel it. Plus, his brother called me an attention whore when no one was around. My boyfriend , he didn't see their behavior, so he tried inviting me along but i was so uncomfortable i didn't want to go.

So he blamed me for not trying with his family. Saying i want too much and take up too much of his time. I dont give him freedom.

He's THE ONE WHO DID THE MAJORITY OF PLANNING AND ASKING FOR ME TO BE WITH HIM. I dont understand how he loves me can't get enough of me wants to be with me forever, then his family shows up and in a few days suddenly im clingy and over bearing.

I was vey hurt and insulted but even still i tried to be reasonable. I told him he was treating me very badly but i can forgive him if he mends his way. And as far as needing space, im happy to see him less. It was actually very hard on my schedule to be around him so much. So no problem we can have more space, but that shouldn't change us loving each other. We love each other dont we? He said its too late, i wanted too much he just wants space. Maybe well meet in the future.

Can you love then not love in a day?

I dont understand.

Can he leave but still love me? an you guys help me understand this?

Did his parents poison im against me?

And is he done or does he want to try again in the future?

Should i ask him these questions, or just forget him bc he's really just a big fake and everything was a lie.

Did he use me for attention?