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So over the holiday my mother and I were talking and dating came up. I'm a virgin who never dated and not concerned about it right now because I'm focusing on myself. Since this was a private conversation and I'm close to my mother, I came out and told her that I only want to date another virgin and I'm willing to wait until marriage. She didn't go crazy or anything, but she tried to convince me otherwise, asked me even if she only had sex 1 time before you'd still wouldn't date her, and I said no I wouldn't. We ended up debating back and forth and eventually I just said "I chose to save myself for someone special and I just ask for the same in return", but what she said next very much insulted me. She said "well a woman only has sex when she's in love, and sometimes her feelings were't right, and you should be more considerate and accept it." It sounded like she was telling me to just give myself away regardless of what I want. Just give myself to whoever like a charity food stamp. I know she didn't mean it and was trying to help, but I couldn't help but to feel offended. I didn't bring this up because I still respect my mother, but this is what her dating and sex life was.

She lost her virginity at 13.
Dated a guy in his mid 20's when she was 15.
Got pregnant by said guy and had my sister at 16 then my brother at 21.
We still don't know who my biological father is because she was hooking up with random guys while living at some old guy's house, and that old guy might even be my father because she was sleeping with him too.
She's been married 3 times and didn't have children with any of the men she married.

Both my older brother and sister had their first child at 17. My sister is an overweight single mother in her mid 30s and my brother in being divorced for cheating on his wife and is running off with a girl he already got pregnant, and his child support looks like a shopping list.

If I'm going to get into a relationship, I want something that's special.

I got drunk at a bar. I was talking to a really pretty girl for a couple hours. She’s such a cool cool, and I was lost in her beauty. Curly hair and beautiful eyes, incredible physique.

Next thing, I took her home and had sex with her. She was hella in to me.

After I ejaculated, I suddenly came to my senses/sobered up and was pissed at her. I said it was a big mistake and get the fuck out out my house and never talk to me again.

I don’t do this type of thing, I don’t feel confortable with hookups I just been going through a low patch and desired company and needed someone to touch.

It’s not like I can commit to her anymore starting off so shallow/messy. I regret it so much, I wish I could turn back time. Lost my virginity to a hookup and not my life partner.

Ordered And paid for her Uber to her house.

I'm about to be 30 this December.

I mean for a serious relationship. A guy age 25+ dating an 18 year old girl. She might still be in high school or fresh out. This is not just about sex, this is about the relationship as a whole.
He might even be waiting until marriage for sex and he's dating an 18 year old because she hasn't given her virginity away.
Maybe he doesn't want kids until much later and wants someone who will still be young and fertile when he's ready.
Whatever the reason, there is no ill tensions involved in this scenario, the guy genuinely wants a real relationship.