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We dated a few times, he knew my uncles and cousins, I already visited his home and I met his best friend...when I confessed he rejected me. He told me that he didn't mean to make me fall for him. It's been 2 months since then and I want to be friends with him again. He randomly posts comments on my Facebook photos but never initiates conversations. I still like him a little but I'm already interested in someone else although that's not given on my facebook. I wanna contact him again without looking like I want to win him back. I wanna be friends again since that's the real purpose of our relationship in the first place. Should I start talking to him? If yes, how? If no, when? Or wait for him to contact me? Thank you very much! xoxo

Diving right into it. My ex boyfriend and I broke up 1st of April (wasn't an April fools :S). Anywho, I started to notice a distance between us. He no longer made me a priority and communication was to a minimum.

In the beginning he did all the perusing & courting. When he first asked me out I refused because he just got out of a relationship apx. a week before. I still agreed (Mistake?). I suggested he take time after that relationship ended and let him know we could just remain friends. Nope. He didn't want that. Gifts got bigger, more time and attention was spent together.

In the end, he stated he needed space. He felt he needed time alone because he had been in relationships since the age of 16 (We're both 25). His final words, "But, I don't want to lose you. I still want you in my life but I don't think I give you what you want right now." I responded, "I can't remain friends with you but I'll give you your space."

Since that day, I haven't contacted him. Giving all the space in the world. Look at the date... it's killing me. I work with him too so seeing him at work is really awkward. However, I always make sure I look cute and have a smile on my face. Workouts have been amp'd up, girl time has been doubled, and dinner dates with new potentials have been nice. Buuut... I still miss my ex terribly. Especially when I see him at work.

Should I ever make contact? (In person/Text/Phone) Or should I just continue resisting? He hasn't called me but still hangs with my friends. I see him looking and he's so much more animated when I see him now. I don't know. Help anyone?