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I am 26 and my boyfriend is 22. Coming this March, we have been together for 3 years. During our 3 years, it has been very rough. In the beginning, I've dealt with him calling me names, screaming at the top of his lungs/ in my face/ punching walls/ throwing things/, cheating on me, creating secret accounts by asking other women for sex, forming relationships online with other girls (where he'd stay up from the day until 6am with them & ignore me), calling other girls and prostitutes to meet with them (but would never follow through with it), and lying. Now, I would have left, but I stayed because I understood he was insecure about himself since he told me he was, and I gave him another chance when he said he snapped out of it and realized how much he was hurting me. He promised all this would change and it'd be in the past. We were working on trust again. I have not cheated, not lied, not deceived, and not have been unfaithful.

One of our reoccurring problems, is that he hides stuff from me and it always has to do with other women. Whether it be flirting or visiting sites. For a long time, HE STOPPED doing these things and our trust was almost restored UNTIL yesterday. We share a phone. I opened it and all these nude pictures of women popped up in the private browser. He forgot to close it. I was upset he felt the need to hide it and what else could he be hiding? He's always "tired" and we hardly have sex or he says I am too loud and he doesn't want to wake his parents. I don't send him sexy pictures anymore; he tells me not to because he doesn't want to get his icloud hacked like other people. It's confusing. He tells me he doesn't have sexy pictures of me so he needs to look at other nude women to get off. It hurts since he always says I am the only person he jerks off to when I have proof that is a lie. The only pictures he has of me are normal smiling pictures and he told me he's a visual person. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. It's old. Help?

I prefer texting because I don't like being on the phone all the time. One of my best friends LOVES talking on the phone and we've talked on the phone for five days. I never usually talk on the phone much and I prefer texting instead. She told me she'll call me tomorrow morning at 7 or 8am. She wants me to call her ex boyfriend to get some truthful answers and we know he's going to keep lying. I wish she would just let it go. Her boyfriend of eight months dumped and cheated on her and has called me a few times every day since Saturday.

Me and my boyfriend of 7 years have been going at it a lot lately, mostly about him talking to other females. He is very flirtatious and will give or take a phone number from anyone. He also lies a lot. So i kicked him out everyday for a month I finally drew the line and told him by Friday he had to leave. He left but didn't take anything. He came over almost every day to see our kids and take a bath then I started letting him sleep over basically he never left! My hopes of breaking up and him leaving were for him to appreciate me and realize how important our family is to him. I started to see improvement he started spending more time with me and our kids and he would call me and answered the phone when I would call he'd even text me back. He would tell me daily how much he loved me and wanted to make things work and that he wanted to come home permanently I told him he had to stay consistent and keep showing me he wanted the relationship he did here and there but he never really gave it his all this has been going on for 3 weeks so a few days ago I find a few hair strands in his beard I question him and he tells me if he were doing anything with anyone besides me he would tell me so me being skeptical I check his online phone records and confront him I even had a conversation with the female in front of him basically he and she have been having a fling for a month and they have had unprotected sex at least once I have also have had unprotected sex with him 4 days before I found out and he has not been in contact with her and she has contacted me to apologize because he told her he had no contact with me at all he swears he will be a better man but he has promised in the past to change his cheating lying ways he's even volunteered to go to counseling and church so he can be a better spouse and father I don't know what to think I love him so much but having unprotected sex is so low down and dirty especially when you don't know the person from a hole in the wall