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• I dated a guy for a year, we broke in August last year
• I was the one that decided to end it because I wanted a relationship and he wasn't ready for one.
• We ended on good terms: We had a normal conversation, he wanted to keep going & just take a step back if I needed to. I declined and thought it was better if we just broke up.
• I never talked to him again after breaking up, we still had each other on social media but I silenced him
• On Christmas, he sent me a really nice text out of the blue and I responded. The conversation ended there but a couple of hours later he told me he owed me a gift and we got talking.
• He asked me out the next day, I declined because I couldn't and was leaving for a getaway. I was leaving on Monday and he asked me out on a Friday. He asked to see me that weekend and I again declined because I was very busy and also because previously in our relationship I had always been very available. I told him we could see each other when I was back the following week
  • His answer was: "we'll see when you come back"
• We talked for about 2 more days, it was as if he pretended nothing had ever happened, said he missed me, started with old internal jokes. The conversation eventually died down and I left him on seen and then we never talked again.
• We haven't talked since then (it's been about 2+ weeks)
• I am back from vacations and he knows it
• The other contact we had was him liking a picture from my vacations about a week ago

We had been dating for a year, but things were not official until few months ago. He only started to meet my friends/family when we became an item. Now that things are official, I thought he would be open-minded about meeting his circle. Sadly, it seems like
he’s not very into inviting me to meet his circle of people. But all his friends and family knows about me, and that we are in a relationship.

I met his family during Christmas holiday, but it was kind of forced. He initially did not plan to include me. I was kind of not happy about that because he already met my family during the holiday. It’s also lockdown over here, and it has been depressing. He also had met both my best friends. He mentioned his parents got me a gift too. I gave him a chance to invite me by asking him if I’m coming... since “we” bought the gifts together. I also paid half and my name was on the card.
The way he responded was basically saying if I want to go, then go. It wasn’t him really “wanted” to include me at first. Things will get really upsetting and awkward if he still does not invite me. In the end, he felt I was being awkward , and he encouraged me to go. I met his family, and it was really great!

He was having a zoom meeting with his friends. He was the one who initiated for me to come quickly say Hi to see meet them online. After a chat for few minutes, they mention to quickly meet up on the weekend for a birthday. I assumed that I was invited because his friends were saying “you guys”. Yesterday, he mentioned that he was texting his friends what “HE” will be doing tomorrow for the birthday with his friends. It doesn’t sound like he was including me.

On top of everything, he is currently staying at my place. He had his parents to come pick him up at my place, and having me stay at home doing nothing. His parents probably would of find it weird and ask about the girlfriend. I am assuming his friends are picking him up from my place tomorrow. How do I talk to him about this?