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Now I want to begin by pointing out that I've never actually said anything to my boyfriend's friends about how they parent their children. This is strictly based on how I feel.

My boyfriend has multiple friends that I feel like are dropping the ball when it comes to their kids. He's playing Xbox with one RIGHT NOW, this PARTICULAR friend quit his job a few months back because "it was just too much" *he worked PART TIME at walmart.* well I was sitting next to my boyfriend, and suddenly heard children's just general commotion from his headset. Not really crying but they were yelling and squealing and whatever because these children are 2 years and then also a 2 month old infant. It's now 11 pm at night, his friend is playing Xbox ignoring the children, his wife works the night shift somewhere (not sure where I've never met her), yet despite the fact that this man has no job and nothing to do all day, for SOME REASON his 2 children are up at 11 pm at night.

I've heard this same friend cuss out these babies through my Boyfriend's headset before. Calling them "little Assholes" and so on and so forth if they get in the way of the TV while he's playing Xbox.
I told my boyfriend that it's extremely lazy parenting bordering on neglect, and that his friend's wife deserves so much better and that if she had any brain at all she'd leave him.
My boyfriend got all mad at me and was all "well you don't know the situation" to which I questioned when it would be appropriate to let a 2 year old and an infant be up at 11 O-Clock at night calling them bad names, and he didn't have a comeback for that but said I shouldn't judge people since me and him don't have kids ourselves
AM I the asshole for judging him?

When you look at *real* scientific statistics, not the rubbish posted by the media nor by government paid quacks like Fauci who when this first came out was so wishywashy on his advice (mask, no mask as example) a "doctor" whose license came from a cereal box would've been better, this virus is more or less a bad case of viral pneumonia. Nothing more, nothing less.

Those most susceptible are those who are most susceptible to any virus or flu. Elderly, people with compromised immune systems, etc. Italy, which was badly hit, was only badly hit because unlike Anglos they've multi generational households. Seniors living with their children or grandchildren. Italian scientists themselves said over 95% of the dead had preexisting health conditions.

Do people "deserve" to die... No. And to the paranoid Covid-is-a-monster bandwagoners who think that's what I'm saying, as has happened, you can also die from choking on a grape, a bad car accident, or an allergic reaction ya uneducated & sheltered fools. Should we stop growing grapes, selling cars & live in bubbles do you think?

Do people deserve to go bankrupt, forced to close their businesses, loose their homes, their cars, their families. Do people deserve to be locked up at home which just worsens certain mental issues. The suicide hotlines are have been flying off the hooks in many regions in the US & Canada ALONE because the RATES OF SUICIDE HAVE INCREASED considerably.

All for what? A bad case of something that comes around every year & yet we're not weeing our underwear about it like 2 year olds that were never potty trained.