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So there's this girl who joined work a while ago, my work is male dominated so she is one of the few girls in our dpt At first she was really warm cause of her habit of being social and nice. I didn't mistake it for flirting but i was the only guy she talks to regurarly as others were not her type and dont know how to approach a girl honestly, so with time im like i like this girl and she may not be the most beautiful but i get attracted to the personality, we share some laughs and jokes then she began staring at me more and at the beginning she asked for my number which was weird, i also didn't mistake it as if she's interested in me. So for the first couple of months i helped her in everyway and i was a complete gentleman opening the door for her and carrying her heavy laptop for her, one day she's like you smell good and kept giving me compliments. She knew i liked her but there are days she gives me the notion that she wants her space and i never did invade it i was just being there for her so i kind of pulled away, I've had my own share of heartaches so i was cautious going ahead, in other words i played it safe from day 1 but i sometimes i think that maybe im too kind or too there for her, sometimes she ignores messgaes which are completely work related or just asking about her, and other days she is the complete opposite, we talk a lot and one day she said she has a friend who is moving over to our town and he as with her at college. I kinda knew that maybe she was in a relationship but sometimes she shows me that she's not in one. One day i asked her for coffee before her leaving for new years, and she said she was busy and i figured that she wasn't, anyways i was cold with her and she kinda got it and asked me if there's something wrong with me and she was worried, that day she's like yeah that guy i told u about has a problem in shipping his car he's asking me nicely and i wish u can help, we had a relationship in college and im telling u cause ur like my brother?

So i met this girl this past new years and it was probly one of the best new years I've had in a while. she's a friend of one of my close friends from my hometown that i have never met before. she's really sweet, nice, thoughtful and actually went out of the way to show interest in me. Needless to say we spent the majority of the night with eachother hooking up. We parted ways and we met up the next day in town and she slept over. we didn't have sex or anything because she wanted to wait. She lives a little less than 2 hours away from me and we met up for the 3rd time a couple weeks ago because she's going to be working going around the U. S for about 2 1/2 months. We had a really good date and we finally got to have sex. She complained a little about my size but was really into it as if she never had something like that before. Anyway my main question is that i won't see her until the begining of May, maybe sooner if they have a job by me. We talk basically all the time, phone call in the morning and when she finishes work texting when we both can. She talked to me about dating and I said we really should speak about that in person but I want to be exclusive with her. Before I said that thought she kept saying i can "do what i want" so i asked her out of confusion "you would be okay with me having sex and hooking up with other girls"? something I DONT WANT TO DO. and she got really upset and starting crying saying thats not what she wants and she wants me, i calmed her down and told her i really like her i just want to be exclusive and to talk about actually dating in person when she comes back for the summer. The company she works for splits the members into groups and she's in a group with two guys. It makes me feel a little uncomfortable bc im jealous they are with her for like 2 more months. She talks to me everyday and makes a point to, tells me how much she misses and wants to jus be with me, I shouldn't be concerned about the guys right girls?