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Be warned this is quite a lengthy story.

So, I was an apprentice this year. The company I was initially at was really bad and I was being taken for granted and worked to the bone. I decided enough was enough and left, but I had to find a new company to complete the remainder of my apprenticeship. I've just handed in my notice because I'm now complete and the company was horrible.

My friend got me the job. It is an apprenticeship college, so they understood my viewpoint and background. I was hired to do marketing and admin but basically the managing director (small company) is a very spoilt woman with bad managing skills and provided useless feedback, unrealistic deadlines and signs of complete control. I handed in my notice and today she called me into her office and said "putting aside the working late, shit pay and self centred bitch of a boss, have you enjoyed it here?". Obviously I was a bit gobsmacked and she said "be careful what you put on facebook". Firstly I don't have her on my facebook, and secondly I am well aware of social media postings. And then the penny dropped. The mutual friend who I've known 8 years. I private messaged him that and only him that.

Here's where it gets interesting. The MD has just got engaged (she told her finacee not to even bother unless the ring cost £10,000 or more) but has a huge soft spot for my friend. If he has been working in the city, she will leave home to collect him from the station 11pm at night and drive him home. One Sunday, she drove him all the way to the city to his hotel, 4 hours there, 4 hours back. She had no reason to be there. She goes through all of the work computers and checks our emails and has requested to be able to see everyone's computers and documents without their consent.

So it's obvious my friend is a little snake or she is going through his personal phone. But, everyone has the feeling something more is at play here. Do you think they are having an affair? And if they are, should I tell her future husband?

Okay first off I have never cheated, and will never cheat but have been cheated on.

Anyway, I met a guy recently and we became friends and my boyfriend and I were having issues but we are working on them. Anyway this guy, let's say Tom, knew about my boyfriend Josh. So Josh started to get concerned that Tom was so friendly because he is the very jealous type but I told him it is nothing. But last night Josh and I got into a fight and I was at a party, drank a bit. Not enough to be drunk or anything but I was feeling it a little. Anyway, Josh and I stopped talking and then Tom talked to me and we skyped cause I was upset and his phone was messed up or something. We didn't do bad things but I woke up on my laptop and I haven't spoken to Tom all day and that is making me upset. The fact that I feel upset over not talking to him is worrying to me. Should I stop our friendship before an "emotional affair" begins because I remember him saying things to me like "you're so gorgeous" to me last night, but I don't know if he just said it because I was so upset over Josh.

What would you do?