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27F Earlier last week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie Saturday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Saturday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but Saturday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I left his message on seen. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess. My social anxiety gets the better of me with these situations I’m cursed. I just don’t get why I can’t find a guy that wants to fight for me

TL; DR: Should I have replied when this guy said he was no longer interested?

27F Earlier last week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie Saturday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Saturday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but Saturday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I left his message on seen. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess. My social anxiety gets the better of me with these situations I’m cursed. I just don’t get why I can’t find a guy that wants to fight for me

TL; DR: was he just not interested or am I to blame because of my lack of enthusiasm?

27F Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie Saturday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Saturday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but Saturday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I left his message on seen. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess. My social anxiety gets the better of me with these situations I’m cursed.

TL; DR: was he just not interested or am I to blame because of my lack of enthusiasm?

Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie yesterday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Yesterday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but yesterday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess.

Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Yesterday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie today. Yesterday evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Today before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him yesterday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but today was so off, he sent a message just now saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him.

Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Yesterday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie today. Yesterday evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Today before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him yesterday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but today was so off I have a feeling he won’t reach out again.

A guy I am good friends with and I have been flirting and acting like more than friends for a few months but he never actually asked me out just hugged me a lot and spooned me if we shared a bed, flirted etc.

I found out a week ago that he has made a tinder (a friend of mine found it). When I made a joke about it to him he said he's already deleted it but I asked her to look and she found him on it still.

Does this mean he has no interest in me as more than friends now?