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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
How can I get dates?
Since my break up, my confidence has decreased massively. I'm afraid to show interest or talk to girls (in a dating sense at least). I don't seem to even know how anymore. I used to have no problems with this Even when...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Was she flirting or was she letting me down easily when I asked to go to chick-fil-a with her?
This happened a few years ago and back then I knew this girl for like 3-4 years and didn't make a single move until the Christmas party. We were playing dirty santa and a chick-fil-a gift card revealed itself. She really...
DntKnwHwToTlkToGrls
Xper 3 Age: 22 Need opinion on something I've been thinking about recently?
Alright, I started crushing on this girl my junior year of high school. I weighed a lot more than I currently do now (ex offensive lineman), and never had the will to say anything to her as I had zero confidence. One of...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I stop being shy with girls I like?
For reference I’m one of those guys that had a “glow up” so my high school life was meh and somewhere between 17-now I’ve changed drastically like I can’t go anywhere without someone complimenting me but I still get soooo...
elite665
Explorer Age: 26 I feel bad, but am I right about this?
Okay so me and my guy bestie talk all the time. We’re both in college so yes, classes can be hard. He’s a math geek, but he got a barely passing grade because he lacked confidence and made himself get used by people to do...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does he still have interest in me? How do I gain confidence to talk to him?
This guy is super smart, popular, and sophisticated. We don’t talk much. When we do it’s over text. For some reason I feel awkward approaching him because I don’t want to screw what we still have. I don’t want to yell at...
Anonymous
(18-24) I keep having nightmares about being left for another woman. How do I move on?
I keep trying to get over my what ex (who I haven’t seen since September 2018) did that really like fucked me up. It just makes me feel insecure asf like I can’t shake the feelings of being “not good enough”. I don’t love...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think she likes me?
So, I met this girl when I moved into the dorms at my college and despite us not talking much to begin with we first noticed each other when she came into my room with a bunch of friends because I was playing piano and I...
Slk79ghkd
Xper 2 Age: 25 Girls, Why do most girls say they want confidence in men?
But never show any confidence to walk up and get the guy that they want and then make fun of the guys that have no confidence?
Anonymous
(30-35) How to talk to guys?
This probably sounds incredibly dumb coming from a 21 year old, but my friend is always lecturing me about how I need to start speaking to guys and how I need to get into a relationship and blah. But I just don’t have...
Anonymous
(25-29) Get The Perfect Wardrobe For Winters.
Say goodbye to the summer season and welcome winters. Yes, the winter season is about to arrive. Interestingly, your wardrobe demands a lot of attention while the weather is changing. To make your closet perfect for...
RawaajUK
Xper 5 Age: 27 Girls like me when I act like an asshole. But I hate to be like that. But girls won’t like me if I am my true self?
If I’m mean to girls they love it. If I act like I think I’m better than other people, they love it. It all started off as an innocent joke. I was mr shy loser that girls ignored (not all. I’m lucky to be handsome so...
Kaazsz
Yoda Age: 40 Is this shy guy into me?
-He admitted to me that he's shy. -One of the first things he told me when we started texting was that 'he's a very lazy texter'. And every single friend we have in common have told me he sucks at it. At first he was...
itsmicaelaxo
Xper 6 Age: 32 Am I reading signs wrong?
So there's this girl from work and I thought she was pretty, but I'm low on confidence. She comes up to me and says, "You have nice eyes" I dont get compliments too often so I thought I'd risk it and ask her out. She told...
KamehaPlaya
Xper 3 Age: 26 Girls, Why dont you girls look up to joan of arc and use your confidence to get what you want like she did?
joan of arc was never afraid to show her confidence and she never hid her confidence from guys
Anonymous
(30-35) I now believe dating sites are a waste of time for men. Would you agree with me about this?
So I've been using dating sites for years now, pretty much since I turned 18 almost 10 years ago. The reason I mention that is because in total, I've only gone on 4 total dates, where I got to meet the woman I was talking...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 Stressing out due to my inability to attract women?
I want to improve myself and gain confidence to approach and attract women. I know even ugly guys can get attractive women because they have the skills to attract them. I'm 23 and I'm not a virgin anymore, I've had...
Bigman117
Xper 6 Age: 29 Would you think someone is weird or rude if they look at you & not care if they get caught?
Would you give this person a smile if you find them attractive in a way? I think if someone was staring at me not a cold stare id probably go up to them. People who stare & get caught staring but don't look away usually...
GennySanders
Xper 5 Age: 21 How do I talk to my boyfriend about my ex?
I've told my boyfriend briefly about my ex, I hate talking it because it means going back to one of the hardest times of my life. I'm sure worst thing will happen I'm only 21 but it really effected me negatively for 3...
Alice2398
Guru Age: 28 How can I trust women again?
I have never had a girlfriend or serious relationship in my life, but that is not for lack of trying. I have gone after women that caught my eye and I fancied and have been rejected or given the friendzone speech....
Anonymous
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