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So my friend group is weird

This question is more for girls , I’d prefer a girls take in this question.

There’s one girl they all talk badly about since she’s more distant and I think I’m probably the same I just don’t know it because how would I hear it.

But I notice it with this other girl they act a bit miserable in her company and try to leave early etc.

Do they do the same to me?

I’m not negative at all, I’m up for dancing, karaoke but at the same time more of a quieter member of the group. I’ll have fun but I’m an introvert.

I do notice in the only one who gets hit on by guys. But I just say thanks and continue to have fun with my friends which is why I went out in the first place. I don’t talk about guys and I don’t bring it up like “omg did you see he spoke to me etc”. I just move on from it.

Yet whenever I’m not there they seem to do mroe on nights out and all enjoy it mroe.

Is it possible by me just being involved but more quit I “ruin the night” or lessen it or it’s better without me being there. I do have a more different sense of humour in that I am up for a laugh with literally anything and not bothered about embarrassing myself. But I don’t say or do things the group wouldn’t, like I’m not constantly making sex jokes or making a show of myself.

I've become strict this year and developed boundaries. My mother confuses it for bitterness. I don't think so. Is what happened to me, the reason kind people are harder to find?

Emotional bullies:
At school, they take pleasure in humiliating you, have little to no empathy. They expect you to forgive and forget, act as if nothing happened when greeting you. This is the same as cleaning someone's mess and be ok with it.

Fake friends and family members.
I once forgave a female bully after a physical fight. I fell for her fake apology, fake tears and handshake. I didn't realize girls don't function the same way as guys. She faked it all for a year and gave me a fake phone number on my yearbook. Certain members in the family are only there for you during your success and good times but not during bad moments.

Takers:
The take and take... and the more kind you are... the more they take. They have no shame in how they're acting. However, if you need a favor all of the sudden they're busy, ghost you or are unavailable. They are online seeing your message and don't respond back. If they need a favor, they expect you to reply back quickly and help them.

Cheapskates:
This is different from saving money. They are the types that buy fancy, expensive things for themselves (it's always about them) but nothing for even their own mothers nor your own b-day. It's always a discount ticket or a cheap buffet, never spoiling you once at least. They are always broke but yet they're wearing expensive shoes, pretending to be wealthy. Or they invite you to their house just to watch a movie but real date.

Liars, lovebombers and scammers:
My ex boyfriend. He asked for money ($1,200) and never paid me back. He was a bum, vampire boyfriend too, lying about future plans and never progressing things. I learned he was really a sociopath that took pleasure in all that. He really wanted to drain all my fertile years for the sake of it. He lovebombed like crazy in the beginning and it was all lies.