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I'm asking this question because a lot of women are pregnant on social media and getting the Happy Mother's Day shout outs. I personally don't care, I'm just curious as to see what others think about it. Personally, a woman is a mother when her child is born, because you can terminate a pregnancy. Being pregnant doesn't make one a mother just yet, especially depending on how far into the pregnancy she is.

Of course that doesn't mean that you HAVE to give birth to a child that you are caring for to be a Mother. A mother is anyone who cares for a child. Whether that be an aunt, God mother, foster mother or adoption mother. Being pregnant alone doesn't = mother.

*If you have a mother who is/was crappy. This is not a dumping ground for venting.

Recently my boyfriend's ex added me as a friend on facebook. I accepted the friendship because I was curious if she would message me something. Days go by and she is always posting depressing statuses like wanting to kill her self. Or how she failed in life at everything. Her current boyfriend is currently in jail and she stresses about that too. Besides the fact that she is my boyfriend's ex, I would like to message her something friendly just in case she has nobody to lean on. I wouldn't mind her venting out to me, just because I feel bad and I know how hard it can be to be a women. I wonder if this is weird that I do this? I'm not sure how she would respond to me since she knows I'm dating her ex.