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Before i start, I just wanna say i respect the relationship as long as she's happy and i just wanna voice in my opinion. Please no hate.

So i have this friend whos really nice. she's really funny and brings a positive vibe to everyone she talks too. Then there's the guy she started dating. He hops from one girl too another and even talks about other girls when there together, But she doesn't say anything. She told me that she doesn't really like him talking about other girls but she still puts up with it and seems happy too even be with him (Keep in mind she use too be insecure about herself but has moved on past that)

Why does she still date him? Any responses would be appreciated and again, please no hate. I just wanna voice in my opinion. Thank you☺

Hey what's up gagged? Let me ask you somethin, what type of person are you?

When you feel tention in the air or a bad vibe from someone, are you the type to approach that person and bring it out in the open to try resolving the situation?
or are you the type to just ignore it and keep your mouth shut and resume your daily lives?

i ask cuz when you sweep it under the rug it's like saying IDGAF!😤 & letting your pride take over. But some people want to clear the air and resolve the tention by talking things out.

Now ow talking things out is naturally the adult thing to do but let's face it, sometimes our pride and animosity takes over and we all choose to ignore that particular situation cuz we sometimes think it'll just cause us more stress and pain to try resolving it.
I've seen situations like this take place in friendships, intimate relationships, even with family members and complete strangers. Like I said previously I'm the type that likes to resolve the situation and maybe be friends again but not everyone agrees with my methods, sometimes bringing things up can have negative effects and you essentially end up pushing that person further away or it turns into a physical fight cuz no one likes to back down.

Anyway I'm rambling, I apologize. Can you just tell me the type of person you are?

I'm dating a much younger girl who wants to get more serious. We met at a gym (I didn't realize she was so young but legal of course :) ) and we started talking. I want to take things slower (for both our sakes). She was very unsure about me at first but when she got to know me (hard working, athletic, charitable guy i. e volunteering) she started to like me a lot. She is NOT a freeloader. She has cooked me dinner and offers to pay for meals. I make decent money but I have never gotten the vibe that she was after that. I never talk about my salary. I have met PLENTY of freeloaders in the past and she is definitely not one of them. She is also VERY into me physically. We have been on four dates and fooled around a bit (no home base yet). However she keeps telling me she is looking forward to the grand finale.

I'm really struggling with this because she really is beautiful, smart, funny and independent. However she is also falling for me very quickly. She hinted around about us "being exclusive" on our last date. I laughed, kidded a bit and change the subject. I certainly don't consider her a "pump and dump" but I'm not going to lead her on either. However I've learned (from hard experiences) that fools rush in. I have dated multiple girls in their late 20s and older. Some of the girls were cool, but some weren't. However there was always some major problem (incapitible personalities, one person isn't attracted to other that much, emotional baggage, etc). So far there has been none of that with this young girl.

Should I just say F*CK other peoples moral judgement and continue on with this chic?