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I started talking to this girl in the middle of May, we met on a dating app. I was in such a dark place and she helped me come out of it, depression sucks!
Due to the obvious (pandemic), we unfortunately haven’t met yet. However, we are meeting on Monday! I’m super nervous about it because I like her so much.
We both really like one another and we’ve agreed we will decide whether to be a couple once we’ve met.
She did basically ask me a few days ago if I want to make it official before we meet. I said no, just incase we meet and can’t stand one another.
I already know I want to be with her, she gives me butterflies whenever she sends me a picture or when I see her face on Facebook.

I’m thinking of asking her to be my girlfriend on Monday, I would rather do it face to face; rather than be a coward.
I came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship in March, I ended it because I had been unhappy for a couple of months. This is putting me off asking her to be my girl but I can’t hold on to the past. (I have no feelings for my ex by the way)

My question is this: Do I ask her to be my girlfriend on Monday?

We broke up February this year, 2020. The entire relationship he put me down and abused me in all forms, probably cheated on me too. I can't lie because of his abuse it did make me snap sometimes and prior to him I was never like this with other men. One time I put him in a chokehold, I spit on him, I stabbed him with a pen and sprayed him with pepper spray. I'm not proud of this but I think all the things he was doing to me started to effect me and then I got pregnant by him and he continued to abuse me while pregnant.

Anyway do you think his new girlfriend or whoever he's messing with is abusing him (his karma) or he's talking about me yet again in his Facebook post?

His ex girlfriend hasn't seen him in weeks and haven't contacted him 42 days and counting. They have a child together and she doesn't bother him and didn't put him on child support. His ex girlfriend let's him live his life with his new girlfriend despite him abusing her and cheating on her in the past and talking shit about her. So why is he posting shit about his ex on Facebook? What's the point? She's no where around or contacting him.

And by the way if you don't understand the picture, to the left it's a tv couple and the girl is nice, loving etc and to the right is an actress known for playing roles of being a angry, mean, loud and/or violent woman.