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Me and my boyfriend was arguing last night
I admit.. it is partly my fault
I've been accusing him of cheating and trying to attract other girls coz he gyms a lot and take pictures at the gym
I know he's just training and he's not talking to other girls like that but I've been cheated on so i think every guy would cheat
He knows about my trust issues because of my past relationships and my insecurities
We had a fight about this last night
And then he was sooo mad at me and said:
"You know what? Im gonna tell u the truth. I dont see you as wife material yet. you're just my girlfriend. I want to see you as a wife material but you need to fix yourself. You dont trust me and you're so insecure. We have been together for over 1 year. You would know if im doing something bad behind your back"
What the f?
He doesn't see me as wife material?
I got so upset when he said this to me 😔😔
But he does the following things:
- he's affectionate in public and private
- he likes to see me more than once a week
- he calls me everyday or night before we go sleep
- he puts pictures of us on his facebook and instagram and putting captions saying that "he loves me" and that im his "other half"
- he wants to go on vacation with me
- im the only girl out of all his exes that met his parents
- he says he loves me everyday
Etc etc
How could he say that he doesn't see me as wife material? :(
That shit hurts

Five days ago, me and my boyfriend (been together 1 year) had an argument and I hanged up on him (a habit of mine when i get angry)
None of us tried calling or texting one another for few days
Until 2 days ago, he called me up and said he wants to talk
He called me and he broke up with me:
"We are not going to work out. Im done with your bullshit. I've been patient with you and its enough now. You always hang up on me and dont make any effort in our relationship anyway. Im going to delete you on fb and instagram because i dont think we can be friends. Im not the right guy for you. Im not into bullshit."
I said "so you're going to break up with me over the phone?"
And he said "yeah because there's no point, I know you're going to convince me to change my mind. Anyway take care of yourself yeah. Bye"
And then we hanged up
Then that same night, he called me twice and said:
"Hey. Can i see you? I need to tlk to you. I was harsh on you. Are u free tomorrow or weekend?"
And i said "no, Im busy tomorrow and Saturday. I can see u sunday"
And he said "u got plans on saturday?"
And i said "yeah i do"
Then he replied "wow. That was fast. Ok ill see u sunday"
And then we hanged up
Then yesterday, he called me again and said:
"Can i see you on Saturday morning or afternoon before ur plans?"
And i agreed to meet him
And then today he sent me a message confirming about Saturday
Why does he want to meet me so badly?
And what does he mean by "wow that was fast"?
Tf
Why does he contact me everyday?
Im so confused
What does he want?
To try get back with me again?
To break up in person this time since he realized breaking up over phone is fucked up?

Me and my boyfriend been together for 1 year and 2 months
My previous relationship was messed up - I was going out with him for 6 months when I caught him with another girl. I found out this girl is his "main chick". They had been dating for 3 years. So this means im the "side chick" so yeah he has been cheating on me this whole fkn time. This ended 3 years ago
So I started having trust issues with men ever since then
I still have trust issues to be honest and I think its affecting me and my current bf's relationship
Lately, everything he does, I have been accusing him of cheating and trying to attract women
For example, he has been training at gym for 8 years and always uploading photos of himself at gym
I know this is his thing and to see his progression but lately I keep thinking that he's training at gym and uploading photos to attract women and trying to get their attention
I was going mental about it and kept nagging him how he's trying to get other girls attention and stuff like that
And he said to me:
"you got freakin issues. You need to get over your trust issues and your past. Im not the same guy you dated that messed around with you. Im a different guy. I have never cheated on you. If i wanted to, I couldve done it ages ago. I wanna be with you. Im trying so hard to be patient but one day Im going to click. If you keep doing this and can't trust me then how is our relationship going to work? I trust you with all my heart and you dont even trust me. You need to see a counsellor or talk to someone close to you. If you keep doing this, its going to ruin our relationship. Please fix yourself. I can't fix it for you. You have to fix this part by yourself. If you can't trust me, then dont be with me. "
Am i right to be upset that he wants me to see a counsellor?
do you guys think i sound crazy? 😔
Does this mean he thinks im crazy?