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My best friend and I have known each other for 7 years and she has had a fience for about a year now who is very controlling and none of her other friends view they're relationship as healthy but I do because I know her very well and I can see how having someone like that in her life is good for her but that's beside the point. Recently her and I hung out, we spent about an hour alone together at her house while she got ready before going to her brother's place for drinks and a card game. The next day she tells me that they got into an argument about that night and he told her that she shouldn't be spending time alone with other guys. I didn't really say anything about it I just told her I'm sorry you're going through that and that gave the impression without saying it that I would accept his wishes and try not to put her in that situation again. Now here's where I get more to the point her fiance and I are good friends we've hung out many nights and laughed and joked like we were best buds and I'm kind of insulted by what he said to her because a I would never do that to him and b nothing is going to happen between her and, if it were it would have happened long ago. So I feel like he doesn't trust me which sucks because if that's the case I've essentially just lost two of my greatest friends because I'll always feel like I'm on thin ice around them. But I could also see how it's more about him not trusting her as much as he should which would be a valid premise. She can be a bit promiscuous. What do you guys/girls think. Is it her or me that he doesn't trust?