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What should I do about my "boyfriend" who doesn't want to commit?

16 months! SIXTEEN MONTHS since he asked me out and he's still afraid of commitment. I put on 'little sexy shows' for him and all he can say is "Wow, your body is beautiful!" but when I address him as my boyfriend IN...
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Flirting out of the friend zone? Get him interested?

So I'm coming up on my 23rd birthday and I've yet to be in a relationship. I'm to a point in my life where I want to be with someone. Nothing like marriage, just baby steps to a committed relationship. I was looking for a...
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He wants a relationship, but wants to be single too. What is going on?

I met him on okcupid. He told me he was too intrigued that there were no words to convey his feelings. He asked me out and I said yes. Our first date was a success, and it seemed like the perfect date for us both. It...
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Why are people so hateful?

The reason I always post anonymous is that I'm afraid of being bullied again. I used to be cyber bullied a lot as a kid, which resulted in my dysthymic disorder. The ONE time that I post something without being...
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Do I still have a chance with him or shall I just turn him into fwb?

FIRST OF ALL, THANKS FOR READING! I posted about this guy whom I met at work a while ago. We went out several times, which I am not sure if I should even call them dates because we both never explicitly said that. Most...
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Do first loves ever work out?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months and he's convinced I'm "the one" and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We were good friends and completely crazy for each other for one year before admitting how we...
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Have you ever had to lower your standards?

I used to want to date beautiful women, now that's changed. I decided to lower my standards, I prefer average to cute women now. Pretty women, attractive women, and stunners are immediately written off. Basically, I...
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How can I stop being afraid?

Im going through a phase in life where I am to afraid to commit to my dreams for fear of getting hurt. For example I really want to do an internship in the summer next year but in my mind I'm constantly making up excuses...
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I've been best friends with this girl for 3 years. She is moving away and said she loves me but doesn't want me

She is someone I really love, and she claims to love me as well, but doesn't want to ruin anything between us. We slept together and really connected,even tho she gave me mixed signals. we def feel comfortable around each...
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Is he going to come back? Or should I move on

My ex and I dated for 15 months we had a great relationship but we fought a lot about him not having a reliable job and not driving for the entire relationship we split up about 4 time and each time he came back and we...
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Did I scare him off?

I recently met this guy and he said he wanted to just hang out and chill for a while and we ended up doing stuff. We never had a talk about if each other was clean or not. It's been a couple days since I've seen him and...
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Ex still lurking around. advice

so, me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year ago. not because we didn't love each other, but because we were at different stages of out lives. He is 36 years old and ready to start a family and at the time of the break up I...
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How do I help my boyfriend get a job?

My boyfriend graduated from college last year. He's only looking for a job now because he was planning on getting a 2nd degree this year but now he's fully committed to getting a job instead. At least, that's what he...
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How can you tell if a guy is afraid to love/commit?

ok are there certain traits/ways you can tell if a guy is afraid to commit or love again even when he has strong feelings for someone?especially when there is a strong connection with the girl?
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My boyfriend said he needs alone time and wants to "see what else is out there".

My boyfriend and I just broke up about a week and a half ago. We dated for over four years, since I was 17 and he was 18. We have been through a lot and were recently living together until the breakup. In a nutshell, we...
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Would you date a girl who stayed in the mental hospital?

Two years ago I was sent to a mental institution for trying to commit suicide and stayed longer because I was diagnosed with multiple personality syndrome and they thought I was bi-polar. I'm still having problems...
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Do he loves me?! Why he is afraid to accept me?!

Its a love triangle. He loves me, I love him & his girlfriend is crazy for him. We met in high school, developed feelings for each other, 3 years after I left to another city, came to know that he is now having a...
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Afraid of committing to someone?

I'm afraid of committing to people, ever since my last boyfriend a few years ago now, I seem to have lost interest in guys altogether. I like guys but I can never properly commit to a guy, because I've always had bad...
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Will he eventually be ready to commit?

We have known each other for 4 years, but never dated. We spend all our free time with each other, we have spent a lot of time with each others families, we are exclusive, but no title. I'm at the point where I need some...
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I have become antisocial since the breakup

My ex and I had a really good relationship for almost a year. We had very strong feelings for each other. But he's 24 (i'm 27), and he felt like he wasn't ready to commit to anyone in his life right now. He has to finish...
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