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I never usually believe in Astrology i’ve always said that it is bullshit because I am a Leo and Leo’s are supposed to be confident and attention seeking but instead my personality is the opposite from how 8’m supposed to be I am very shy, sweet, calm and introverted but there is something weird that keeps going on with guys. So i noticed that every guy i have dated or every guy that I’ve tried to date has always ended up being a failure the first guy that asked me to be his girlfriend he was very cold and at the end he ended the relationship because he had feelings for some other girl, the 2nd guy was the first guy i ever tried to online date with through bumble he ditched me and then unfriended me out of nowhere I was never his girlfriend by the way, and then my most recent ex boyfriend that i met on Tinder left me to be with his ex. And the weird thing is that all of these guys in which the relationships all failed or almost relationships failed were born in December and had the same star sign (Sagittarius) . I don’t usually believe in Astrology but this has happend too many times and next time i date or try to date a guy I don’t think i want him to be a sagittarius anymore and i might avoid them. Maybe i just have bad luck with guys in general who knows.

So I've had a bit of a crush on a guy friend for a while and I think (or at least thought) he kind of likes me too. Right now it's very early days but I was telling one of my best friends about it and she pointed out that I'm taller than him and said it would be weird if we dated. Now I'm just over 5'8 which is not huge but pretty tall for a girl, and he's just under 5'8. I honestly hadn't really noticed until she pointed it out since I know him from school and I'm used to seeing him when I'm slouched over with a heavy school bag on my back, but now I'm worrying he'll have an issue with it too. It's not really very noticeable unless I'm wearing heels but I love heels and as an ex-short person (I was 5 foot nothing until I was 16) I love being tall and being able to see over heads in a crowd is still a bit of a novelty for me. I've kind of come into my own in the last year a bit (I grew eight inches and have boobs now) but I've liked this guy since before that and in my head he's still taller than me... I guess I was wondering if there's any point hoping it wouldn't be an issue for him? How would you feel about dating a girl taller than you? Especially if she was unwilling to give up high heels? I know I should probably just ask directly and try and be subtle but I've been told in the past I'm about as subtle as a rampaging elephant and I'm kind of shy and scared of rejection. I guess I was just wondering how would most guys feel about this?

Well, I often end up in a situation where I have to ask this guy out myself, which really bothers me, because it makes me feel like I am unwanted and forcing him to date me! I know for sure he's interested, but when I try to create a convienient window for him to ask me out - he just dodges it! He's either oblivious af, shy af or a playboy af and I'm getting really effing impatient! Normally I would have dropped the issue already but he's just way too cute. So pls - if any of you been in my shoes - share your stories and let me learn how to deal with this ninja. thnx!