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I've been dating this guy,(dating as in hanging out, he's taken me out to eat, etc.) for almost a month now, and his family refers to me as his girlfriend but he doesn't introduce me as such. I really want to be able to say he is my boyfriend, because im starting to fall for him, and he's a really attractive guy.( 6'2", muscled, broad shoulders, captain of his football team, perfect facial hair) I know a lot of girls who would give anything to be in my place, having him spend the night with me and take me to the beach and come see me whenever he can.. I just don't know how to ask. we talked about how we both have major trust issues and that we don't want to rush anything, and I don't. We have been seeing each other almost everyday, and I want him to give me a chance to prove I am not going to hurt him, making him happy is all I want to do. Please vote, im so lost as to what I should do! :/

Is 3 months enough to know if you can now get serious or not? We're exclusively dating. We define it as having fun, no deep commitments or serious one. We meet every weekends and we talk everyday. But I want the label thing. How to approach him or should I wait for him to ask me? Or should I wait a little longer? I am curious if he just wanted me around. I want to know what he want in our relationship and I am afraid to ask because he might pull away.

By the way, I am a single mother and I want to know if being a single mother is a factor that is why he can't decide yet if he wants to pursue a serious relationship or not.

This guy and I have been seeing each other/dating exclusively for a little over 4 months now. Everything has been going really well. Last weekend we spent all weekend together and I met his family. (I was nervous but I think it went well and they said they hope I come around again.)

We only see each other on the weekends due to the distance between us. He text me Sunday night after I got home and told me good night and everything. Monday and Tuesday we text/talked like we normally do. Wednesday we text but didn't have a phone conversation because of his softball games.

Up until this point we had not discussed doing anything this coming weekend. Yesterday afternoon he was snapchating me from bed saying he felt like he was getting sick. I was like aww you poor thing, wish I could make you feel better etc. I had a client event for work last night so I tried calling him a little after 9 P. M. he didn't answer. He text me around 10:30 P. M. saying he was sorry that he was asleep and felt whooped. I didn't respond to that text because I was sleeping by that point.

This morning he sent me another message saying sick day :( before I even responded to his message from last night. I responded back just saying that sucks and I wish he would feel better.

I don't think he has any reason to make up being sick. It's my understanding that he missed work today too. If he just didn't want to hang out with me then wouldn't he make up some sort of excuse instead of being sick? Keep in mind we never had any weekend plans to begin with. Ugh I just have been burnt too much in the past by guys that I tend to over think all of this. Help! What do you think?

My boyfriend and I dated for two years almost ten years ago. We went our separate ways but remained close friends. We have now been back together for about 5 months. The first couple of months were great, communication was open and we were having fun. Now he is becoming distant and almost acts as if he doesn't want anyone that we don't mutually have in common to know about me. We have talked and he says that he still wants a committed relationship but wants to take things slow and feels like we shouldn't title our relationship as dating. I'm confused here, if we are seeing each other exclusively in a committed relationship, isn't that the same thing as dating? I can't even say he is using me for sex because every time we have made plans for dinner, movies etc. In the past three weeks, he has backed out. It's like pulling teeth to even have small talk with him and I get frustrated to the point of calling things off all together but it's like he has a built-in radar that goes off whenever he senses that I have had enough and he suddenly calls or texts me out of the blue and makes nice again. His actions contradict his words on a regular basis these days but when I asked him if he is happy or even wants this relationship he seems convinced that he does. So he's saying one thing, doing another and meanwhile I'm floating over here to the side trying to guess on what to do next since he won't follow through on anything he says he wants. Is this just a rough patch that will smooth over in time if I stick it out, or is he wanting out but isn't man enough to come out and say it? (FYI, we live an hour away from each other but that has not been a problem before)