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So there's this guy who I used to go to school with, we didn't talk much but knew of each other. Recently I went to my friends house and the were having a few people over and he was there. We talked and were together for the rest of the night just chatting and flirting. I found out that a short while ago he had broken up with his girlfriend because she had repeatedly cheated on him and one of his friends told me that he he has lost is confidence and self-esteem. We ended up kissing and sleeping in the same bed though just cuddled. I had work the next morning and had to get up early so i didn't get a chance to say goodbye. He messaged me the next day and we started talking but then he just stopped talking to me and never responded. It's been two days and he spoken to me though he has been liking my photos. We really connected and had so much in common, I don't know why he messaged me then just never responded.
Advice?
And if a girl cheats on her boyfriends does he loose his self-esteem and confidence?

My guy friend and I have been friends for three years and have never been available to date. We were school friends except for sharing 2 after school clubs, no other contact outside of school.

I look back now and realize that he's been slowly making me fall in love with him and I had no idea until it was too late. He told me 2 mos ago that his gf and I were his two favorite people. I was shocked and had no idea I meant that much to him. that made me realize I feel the same way about him and my bf.

He says he and gf both know it's over but don't know what to do now. He only mentions her to me to say how bored and unsatisfied he is with her. He mentions no other girls romantically, except once to joke that he thinks my friend is cute just to make me jealous.

We were teasing each other about how we were going to survive all summer w/o seeing each other every day, so I told him to fb message me and we exchanged phone numbers. He started messaging me more and more so now we write back and forth if the other isn't online and then we jump on ASAP. he never makes me wait for a reply and if he won't be home he tells me. we set up times to chat and talk all day. we've stayed up till 3 and he's started message me first thing when he wakes up. We both said this morning that we weren't awake yet. We've already had fights about my being "greedy" bc I got miffed when I was super tired but was up at 2 just to talk to him and he casually mentions that's he's also talking to gf on the phone while message me and she knew. I think he secretly likes it, though, bc he teases me about it still.

Today he had to go out but told me to text him so we could still talk for nine hours like usual, lol. he's also started talking about sex a lot with me and told me he isn't sleeping with gf.
He found sexts on her phone from another guy.

We talk about everything else, not just sex. today it was about his mom, work, food and blues music. We send each other songs at night.