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So there was a guy worked with had quite a bit of respect for.

He made a comment that implied sexual interest that, when you get right down to it, implies rather low opinion of and/or little to no respect. How can a man already in a relation, after all, more or less propositioning someone else legitimately respect either woman involved? I think it hurts worse cause I did absolutely nothing - no dressing skimpy, no flirting, etc. - that would imply I'd be interested in casual sex/a fling anyway & the way he did it as he implied good in bed was as if he was doing me a favour with the implied offer/invite.

I didn't take it to HR. I couldn't be bothered. Just left. The job was a meaningless podunk minimum wage thing that I was far over qualified for and even if had stayed wasn't worth mention on my resume as it'd undermine the rest, I was already planning to leave before probation ended anyway.

But when I attract the attention of more successful, and in relation far more decent, men it really shouldn't bother me so much (I don't care for such things having my own money, etc.). And I look back & it's like... what the fucking hell did I do to deserve such disrespectful behaviour?

Okay so at work a man who I believe is still married made a comment about how he was good in bed (earning the nickname as a demon in the sack), that he had had flings, and that his woman didn't necessarily care per se as long as she knew he was screwing someone else (no there was no mention of an open relationship).

It was a random piece of information - out of the utter blue at the end of a good engaging conversation - and not brought up directly again. But there were other times when he indicating interest (e. g. constantly looking over, staring, etc.) and/or trying to earn favor by tasks at work. And then there was a friend of his who informed me that he really, really liked you.

I will admit I am attracted & were he not married I'd definitely give him a go... But moral-wise being married is a no-go zone. Work. People hook up all the time at work, as long as there's nothing saying you can't management generally doesn't care.

My thing is, is as this behavior all started within a month of knowing one another despite claims of respect, etc., he was quite simply after sex... Or was he after sex to see if worth pursuing a rapport with (there are quite a few similarities between us, will be blunt would be a good match).