Search Results: he wants to take it really slow

Met on tinder, FWB/one night stand situation, planned to meet that night. He added me on FB & Instagram then texted me non-stop til our date telling/asking me about his and my life. He's been lied to in the past, so we promised to be honest with one another. At one point I joked he was just a one night stand to which he seemed upset with, saying it that all i really wanted and he would prefer to take things slow.

We met, he bought me a few drinks, we had good conversation until he told me he left a girl sitting at a table one time on a date because she wasn't attractive, so we got in a little argument.

Went to the bathroom, came back, suddenly he wants to go home. I asked him if he meant he wanted me to come over, he said no. He asked me what i wanted from him. I told him he talked to much today, I no longer just could see him as a one night stand. He asked me where i was today and after i told him he said he kept seeing my location change on tinder. We got up to leave and he said "Im only going to break your heart". Got to our cars, we started kissing and I grabbed his back and pushed him towards me, he backed up and said, okay that it your going to see me again. I said no, please, and he said no. I then screamed you won't see me again, please, and he said fine. I got in my car went home and deleted him off every media platform.

Fast forward week later, i saw he viewed my linkedin the day we met, and even though i deleted him from Instagram he was still watching my stories. I messaged him asking if we could talk and he blocked me. WHY?

Basically, I was meant to be walking over to his house to visit him tonight after I'd eaten my dinner.

However, he lives in the same suburban area as a guy who tried to force himself (sexually) when I was drunk at the age of nineteen (5 years ago). To be honest, that whole situation took its toll on me, and I never wanted to see the guy's face again, which makes it risky when my current boyfriend lives pretty close to him.

So yeah, as I was about to turn into my boyfriends street tonight, the guy who tried to take advantage of me turned into the street driving his car. I kinda slowed my pace in the hope he'd go into his house before I walked on to the street. But he didn't, he kinda loitered in his car. So I decided not to take the turn off, I just kept walking away from the situation.

I asked my boyfriend to come get me, and I explained why I didn't walk down to his house. He was clearly annoyed (he had been working all day) and seemed moody with me. He then said 'I don't understand why you couldn't just walk 30 metres to my house with your hood up, you had to call me instead' - which got me upset and angry because I really didn't wanna face that guy, it would only bring back bad memories for me.

So I basically then left my boyfriends house after his comment and he was like 'oh so you'll walk past his house now?' And I was so annoyed I was just like 'watch me'. At which point he raced out the house after me and offered to take me home or back to his house if I wanted.

I opted for home, and then he admitted he was being an 'ass hole' but by this time I was crying anyway. So I just exited his car and haven't heard from him since. Did I overreact or am I right in saying he could have been more understanding?