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Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend just doesn't get me, and honestly, it makes me feel really insecure and doubtful about us sometimes. We've only been together a couple months so I thought it'd be different once he got to know me, but nothing's really changed.

Today on the phone he said sometimes my puns are "a little too much." When I told him almost all my close friends and I laugh over my puns and I laugh over theirs, he responded with "are you sure they're not one sided?" And even though we were kinda joking around, it hurt my feelings. I literally had to ask my friends weather or not they thought my humor was dry and annoying (like my boyfriend seems to think) and they all replied no! I even went back to texts with my guy friends, one of them frequently complimented me on my analogies and humor.

Maybe I'm too sensitive but it seems like my boyfriend and I just aren't compatible sometimes. And tbh I'm kind of scared he'll cheat on/leave me, especially with a certain girl, because I foind out he used to like her, he hangs out with her all the time, and I see that their connection is better than ours. He laughs at her jokes like he never laughs at mine and I don't know what to do besides get over it. Is it wrong for me to consider this a dealbreaker?

This guy I met online was head over hills for me. We start dating. One month later he says he loves me and he is falling hard for me. We had sex within the first month and he asked to be my boyfriend. He said one last thing he wanted to tell me early is that he cheated on his past girlfriend but he learned his lesson. However something felt off and I continued to question him asking if he is sure? If he's okay with everything? He stated everything is fine and whatever problems we have we will get through it. We will talk it out. That he's going to always be there for me. The mistake on my part is that I had anxiety one day. I didn't feel like I was good enough for him and I messaged him a lot and called him one morning. He was supportive and said he's not going to leave and let's discuss this later. This was only one time because I don't know something felt off. I noticed he started declining excitement talking to me or seeing me. I pointed that out and he declined that wasn't the case. He would consistently tell me we are compatible. Well one week I notice he wasn't affectionate at all with me. I asked him what is going on and if I can help him? He then stated he's stressed out and pressured for me asking amd stated that he's going to cut this off. I was hurt. I told him can we meet in person? I thought he loved me. So we met in person and he said he didn't love me romantically anymore but only as a person. That we weren't compatible. That our conversations weren't good like he thought they'd be, but before he stated we think so much a like and we can talk about anything. He said my anxiety triggered his past relationship where his girlfriend of 2 years had anxiety. I feel kinda used... We started all of this so fast and he seemed so genuine and how I was really someone he was compatible with. But he changed his mind so fast after He would also refer to sex as "f**cking*. When I asked why he used that word he said he doesn't see me as making passionate love. He sees hard intense sex.