Search Results: if a girl loses interest in you

Like if you’re seeing her for 1-2 months and she seems really into you and says so, is that a turn off or makes her seem of less value? My friend told me I shouldn’t show guys I like them until they ask to me exclusive/my boyfriend, otherwise they’ll lose interest if I show interest.

just curious.

I've never had a boyfriend and I don't even have a job.
I'm 35 and I feel even if someone were to be interested in me to begin with,
they'd lose interest once they find out I don't work?

is this bad?

I went to school and have a degree but nobody ever hired me in the field I studied since I graduated.
I didn't want to apply to regular jobs because I had paid for school for so long it seemed rather depressing to end up working in a regular job when I had spent so much money in school to not work in the field I studied.

I applied like crazy for 5 consecutive years after my graduation, to places that dealt with my field of study but yet no luck.

I gave up because I was so sad and disappointed about it
and stopped applying.

I started applying again some years after and again no luck.

I ended up just helping my parents with the family business but this is not real work for me, it's something I could easily help with if I had initiated my career in what I studied. but it just didn't happen.

I have nothing.

do most of you just lose interest in someone that does not have any work experience at 35 and doesn't have a job?

I saw this video saying that people who seem 'Available' are actually more attractive than people who act 'Aloof'.
It makes sense to me that if a person puts distance, then eventually you lose interest.
However if a person is constantly there for you, eventually you grow some kind of appreciation for them.

So what do you think is more attractive if you were looking for a long term relationship? A girl that seems to be there for you and interested in spending time with you, or a girl that seems distant and like she doesn't need you in her life?

(fyi: im not Asian, im just a fan of kpop, hence the photos I chose)