My best friend is a female the same age as me. We met in college.
She dumped her ex boyfriend and told me all about it. It was a process of about a year where she was tired of paying his bills and the rent and food while he was unemployed and lazy. He was only interested in demanding sex from her.
I spent a year hearing how angry she was about him. Sexually she always described him as an exotic Latin American man. But beyond sex she hated his guts. She felt used.
Then she went into the dating market and saw losers who didn't know how to talk to women or date them.
Even though her ex was a loser she was familiar with his imperfection. She missed him and missed the sex.
This past weekend he drove 4 hours back to her city to visit her. My best friend says that he had told her about how he got a new job that pays well. He was dating a new girl. Things were finally stable in his life. HE WAS NO LONGER HOMELESS.
This loser of a man got his shit together. He credit her for the change.
My best friend was living the fantasy that every woman has...to actually change a badboy loser boyfriend into a polished Prince.
When he stopped by they had passionate sex. I stopped by to see her 2 night ago and she was perky. She had nothing but positive things to say about him. Her thoughts of him drastically changed.
Guys... When your girlfriend dumps you because you lost your job or because she thinks she can do better...remember..clean up your shit. Improve your life. Work on yourself. Most guys out there in the dating market are idiots who dont know what they are doing. It is hard for women to find a quality guy out there. They want the guy they already know to fix what was wrong with them and re-attract. You have the power to get your ex girlfriend back. Aaaand because of previous sex and loving attachment? You have the upper hand!