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Dating a girl who never got attention by guys.

I recently started to meet up with a girl regularly after school, I first met her while helping her with her high school final project.

Dating a girl who never got attention by guys.

We both have the same interests and there is deffenitely good chemistry between us. We meet up almost every Friday after school due to her being in the final year and having no time during the school days. We can get each other to laugh quite easily and know a lot about each other. This has been going on for a bit more then two months.

Yet there is one thing about her. I met her brother and he told me she never had gotten any interest from guys towards her, like never, not a boyfriend or any other relationship and she openly had admited it too to me. So she's clueless about relationships and dating.

In school I heard she rarely talks and is, socialy awkward, a lone wolf kind of person. She's a bit of a tomboy but with me she's completely different. She talks a lot and laughs at my jokes and the stories I tell. We told each other a lot about us our likes and dislikes. The usual I'm attracted to you signs are also there, even tough I think its just a coincidence. The lip bite and lick is obvious.

My biggest concern is this one. She has probably no idea about how to act if she knows a boy likes her or even if she knows I like her. I'm the first guy she's been going out with regularly and I don't know if that's considered a date if we meet up to sit and talk about what we like. She even paid me back what I had spent on her as I paid for her coffee and insisted that I'd take it.

There is no intimate affection coming from her side as example her wanting to touch my hand. Probably because she doesn't know how to or initiate it and is a bit shy or too embarrassed to do so. But whenever I initiate those actions she gladly does it and smiles happily. (letting me touch her hand or even her chin) I realy don't want to jump the gun on affection which is why I too don't try to touch her too much and certainly almost over did it.

She seems to be completely oblivious to flirting too and easily blushed when I complimented about how easily I got lost in her eyes. My friends even tease me about her constant smile whenever they see us together.

I probably should do it slowly with her and just give her time, especialy as it is her final year and on a side note her brother aproves of me.

My Question for this is how should I proceed with her as I really like her and she's the first girl who completely destroyed the ice shell I had put up to protect my emotions. I know that if she'd want to be with me she'd make it clear as day and make time free but as I said we meet up regularly and we even talk on Discord at the week ends. Whenever we are with a group of people she acts a bit more reserved but so do I.

We haven't breached the subject about starting a relationship yet and are still in the get to know phase I think. I didn't tell her I like her but I guess that's pretty obvious and on her side too if we meet up regularly.

Dating a girl who never got attention by guys.
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