Have you outgrown (raised your frequency from) your partner? The workings of vibrational frequencies in relationships?

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

WILL YOU VIBRATE UP OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

Everything is maintained and held together by frequency

Frequencies act as a magnet and a gravitational force that pulls other similar frequencies together

Imagine every object, place, thought, emotion , intention has a invisible number attached to it that denotes it frequency

Your relationship also has a frequency number that is holding it together like glue

Toxicity has a very low vibrational frequency number( let’s denote it is 0-300hz)

In the toxic frequencies , your relationship is held together by fear, lust , low self-worth , jealousy, stress , survival, lack of self- love

Thus for as long as you remain in these frequencies the relationship will be held together

Yet the moment one person in the relationship starts to heal and grow which raises their frequency above the 300hz range, the relationship will begin to fall apart

There is no magnet holding them together anymore because one person vibrates higher than the relationship

Thus the Universe will begin to separate them by attracting events that pull them apart

The partner with the lower frequencies will always try to lower the frequency of the partner who’s vibrating above the relationship just so they can stay connected

Thus at this point, which is one the hardest choices you will have make is between your growth or your relationship

If you suppress yourself to maintain the relationship , you will have won the battle(relationship) yet lost the war(spiritual evolution) thus you will feel the frequencies of defeat on a consistent basis

You will then blame the partner for your hindrances yet it was your choice all along to sacrifice your own elevation

You fear being alone and leaving all you know behind you to delve into the unknown

This very fear is what keeps you locked into the lower frequencies, which keeps you locked into your low vibrational relationship

You have to learn to choose your spiritual growth no matter what without guilt because it’s the only thing you get to take with you to the next life

And if you have the courage to choose growth over your relationship then it will be replaced by a higher- vibrational partner who will desire to grow with you

You have to first believe you deserve better and then the Universe will serve it

You didn’t come here to be trapped in relationships and connections that limit your full potential just because you spent time and had good moments together

The caterpillar knows once it evolves into a butterfly it can no longer hang with caterpillars

It would be unwise for the caterpillar to say “Hey I’m going to remain a caterpillar forever just so I’ll never have to leave you”

The pain you feel in these relationships stems from the fact that you have wings now and you won’t even fly to new heights

Thus you spend all your energy trying to get the other caterpillars to turn into butterfly with you before you take off

Life evolves each caterpillar in their own timing , it is not your job to try to evolve the other caterpillars or wait for them

Some caterpillars take lifetimes to evolve and you would be wasting your whole life waiting and trying to force them

You are not a bad person because you want to fly off as soon as you get your wings

If it is aligned for them , they will fly with you when they’ve been through enough experiences to want to evolve themselves

Let them go so that you can ascend into the higher frequencies of Divine Love, Bliss, Prosperity, and Abundance

YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOUR GROWTH OVER STAGNATION!!!

YOU DESERVE TO FLY AS HIGH AS YOU CAN!!!

YOU DESERVE TO ATTRACT HIGH-VIBRATIONAL RELATIONSHIPS!!!

[Lliam]

I don't know how to measure frequency, but my wife and I are on the same wavelength. We continue to constantly learn and grow.

I began my spiritual journey many, many years ago. I looked into and studies lots of stuff. Now, my personal spirituality is awe and gratitude for all creation. It's similar to some indigenous beliefs. I like the idea of mana. I express my love and gratitude to living all creatures from animals to plants to bugs. I read that plants and even water can respond to positive "vibes".

I've read about the effects of tuning musical instruments to A 440 as opposed to A 432.

My wife is on her own journey to understand the metaphysical. She finds studying that stuff fascinating. She goes on occasional meditation retreats. She's way ahead of me in studying naturopathic health, including the use of crystals and devices to attune the body's optimum frequency.

We are both concerned with the emerging technology to microwave people with various frequencies.

She comes up with a lot of new information. We have a lot of discussions and learn from each other.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

honestly i swear to the universe, which is you and i... this is one of the most awesome responses I've ever had on here

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

does 5d ascension mean anything to you right now?

[Lliam]

Thank you, ClaircognizantEmpath.

I don't know anything about 5d ascension. My wife and I read the Celestine Prophesy years ago. But I didn't place much stock in it.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

I think i would love to be able to talk with your wife, she sounds so similar to myself... i would just adore to have an inspiring female friend for that... I've never managed to attain it... however. my ex husband, best friend is my male version... but i miss having a feminine energy that gets involved with the buzzing energy rather than my ex slamming in with a practical point of view! lol re the celestine book, it was eons ago for me, however, the descriptions of different souls vibrating at different levels, such as an energy vampire type, or aggressor i think there were five types? something in the end game of a human soul is to vibrate at a level where you will be on a different frequency/realm/multiverse when your body dies and you are released back to where you came from... i read a once in my lifetime story, when you die, dont go to the light... its the path to keep you here on earth and repeat,,, for the benefit of the world order... the music frequency was purposely altered to a frequency that creates upset and hysteria to the mind... shoes, schools, it is crazy how in newspapers usa 1930s etc actual photographs of men with giant skeletons,,, everywhere,, same in Europe, most ended up with the smithsonian which a few years ago was in high court for destroying giant skeletons to keep the worldwide narrative... on google they say the sphinx is about 4000 years old... gebep la tepe was instructions and universal history carved on giant stones, a lot of them,,, imagine how long that took... they knew something was coming... it was purposely buried and the earth is at least 10000 years old...

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

im going to find a link to a story i came across at the perfect time... you mentioned water, has memory.. the pollution of the water is the self destruction of us... my son is 21 he went online in front of me and gave me years when the male will be almost infertile and it wasn't long either... contraceptive in the water... food that is non food pure poison.. your awesome gratitude is something i try to practise despite all of it... i have decided very recently that my objective is to shine, keep my positive happy vibe and spread the love, knowledge, listen and learn... i do believe you two are part of the ascension for sure... then destined to meet... i feel she's the one... being a healer would be right... for a feminine soul like hers, she needs you, you're her muse... she is very lucky to have you.. here's a download for you,,, you imagine up a sensory garden, plants, animals, music frequency, tactile, interactive, pratical, by organic gardening, local schools, local elderly... put real old with real young and its literally magic... its like a new energy source and the old one ignites like its got petrol on it... and I've never seen a child unsure,,, i saw energy today i haven't seen it in ages... uk cloud rain anyways its just there... blue sky and look at the inbetween, the dark matter.. its a swirling mass of incy wincy sparkle wiggles, like a spec of energy dancing... but its an endless amount... jiggling like energy does... i hope you believe me, you should sit back and look at a tree or a plant and focus on the middle and allow the aura to appear to you, its like a cloak of invisible that is visible... if a stray cat ever comes into your lives i suggest you go with the flow... any children?

[Lliam]

I find all that stuff interesting. But I'm probably more like your ex, being logical and analytical. I question everything. LOL

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

https://youtu.be/Yvdr9LasPBA?si=9Tv2DtHcBQjLhfEM
i have watched this over and over and over im fascinated from the beginning... atlantis has always been a known to me as real since i was a child... so this creation story is most likely to be the oldest passed on knowledge, i believe there have been many many civilisations that have come and gone... all ancient texts include visitors from the sky, even the bible should have the book of enoch... our science can't explain the changes that happened here.. to human beings... anyways the water and the shapes that frequency can create... i had a uap go straight past me at speed and light not ours.. then it instantly went vertical into the stars as far as we could see... to me it was pure light, are you really 70? and do you own a farm?

[Lliam]

We live on 30 beautiful acres in a rural area, but it's not a farm. I consider most of it a. wildlife refuge.
We do have a small orchard with about 20 different fruit trees on dwarf stock. We have two of some of the trees. Four have 3 or 4 varieties grafted onto the same tree. We have quite a few herbs and grow veggies around our house. We also have flowers and flowering bushes for the birds and pollinators.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

oh wowzers, when you say 30 acres not a farm thats so beautiful, to manage that in the uk you have to be super rich... in sussex around a million at least... did you guys opt out? have you been there years? are you really 70? alan watts? he changed my life.. i literally feel like exploding with frustration when youy watch a video of his with pure truth and knowledge in the 70s about society and ecology and nothing happens... my life long dream is to create a haven where people can come and stay and be part of the process, short term long term,, I've been programmed by the narrative to be scared of my dream, opening up to strangers in the haven, but why would they come if their energy wasn't the same... broken society... as a kid i knew 41 families now i know 5 ... I've been looking into community housing groups.. it seems in usa its really growing.. it makes me sad because our tiny island sells land unrealistic value then you can't do anything with it, anyway my point is if you had a couple of acres afar from your haven, would you share your awesome position with people who share your vibe? with your lady being a healer, i bet an empath and most likely has some of clairs? you could have a retreat so special... sorry lol my dreams hahaha

[Lliam]

We bought the bare land in 2001 for $80,000 out the door. No realtor fees. But we spent a lot building it. Our driveway up the hill is 4/10th of a mile long. A wonderful well that pumps into a 2500 gallon tank further up the hill and gravity feeds all our water. An extensive drip irrigation system. Our own, super efficient septic system. A grid-tied solar voltaic system. A two story steel garage. We've done a lot over the years.

We thought about having places (yurts, trailers, glamping tents) like a retreat where people could come and stay. But there aren't a lot of unused flat areas on our property. We're on the side of a hill. And getting water, electricity and sewage to them would be really expensive. We're not set up for it.

Besides, neither my wife nor I are knowledgeable enough about that stuff to be teachers. I'm not really into meditation or that kind of spirituality.
Plus, I enjoy the peace and quiet and she still works.

What we want to do at this point is grow as much of our own food and be as self-sustaining as possible.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

truly im kinda shaking right now,,, you may not have those teaching intentions but tonight for me hearing these things of beauty from you, its like the universe is giving me the nod like yes here's a real confirmation... self sustaining, my cute little version is tomorrow im putting up a 4x 2.5m polytunnel to grow as much as i can myself.. i got about 30 kilner jars so im going to learn to can.. i seriously believe these skills may be a serious gift in the not too distant future... the rich will eat organic sustainable food and the poor will afford insects and 2000AD protein.. you're living the dream, amaze-balls!

[Lliam]

We're trying. LOL

[lightbulb27]

I like the concept of frequency, well logically structured. Everything makes sense to me as frequency, at least to some extent anyways.

Interesting issue of outgrowing, and almost sounds like... a justification. We haven't outgrown each other and I think we work effectively now as ever. But I am actively working on growing spiritually, it's what I seek, that I may give more. I do feel God (that loving frequency) is using me where I'm at, but I also don't think I'm as effective as I could be.

I wonder though about this... become a butterfly and move on... e. g. don't let others one has committed to... hold you back. What is that really about? Are relationships and others just a platform for us to improve and then leave when we transition to the next stage? Where is the love and commitment in that? Responsibility (to creating family and building each other?). Others may not want to change with us, that is their choice.. but do we leave, or should we give each other flexibliity to be their full selves.

I'm reminded Jesus didn't leave his followers until he had no choice... he lead them, although he got a way a lot of the time to pray by himself because they were such a bunch of doubters and a drain. When he did leave, he told them he will be with them forever. That is loving and considerate.

Gandi did a lot of walking and could have left people but didn't. Not sure about Buddah...

I'd re-exmine the root of what causes one to think they should fly out of a place because they've outgrown the other.

I agree, there may be times to do so... when the others refuse to improve themselves and in effect, make the other ill and ruin their life. In my view... that's a time to evaluate flying out of the nest, for the betterment of both. That can be an act of love, not abandonment.

The Bible talks about how "if you marry... you will suffer". But talks about how both are "yolked together".. e. g. pull in same direction. That may speak to frequency as well... to work together.

A worthy topic of exploration, thanks for sharing.

How to raise ones frequency and raise that of others around them, that is a good topic! That strikes me as health.

[exitseven]

We have been on similar paths our entire lives. Marriage is never perfect and each participant had to be willing to make sacrifices. Marriage is a life long commitment. Just because you suddenly want to take up mountain climbing does not mean you should file for divorce

[midnightmoon05]

lol…I am glad my hubby and I are on similar wave length. We always give each other and love each other and care for each other especially when one is down…that’s love.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hey there, im so very glad to receive your response first, it is the truth that two peoples energy have to work together with equal balance.. now when i see balance, a scale can be weighted one sided but it is the other side that is keeping the counter balance, ie love and care for each other... and im sure over the years purely from the fact you are still together, troubled times no matter what can lead to growth... but that is where it takes two... and souls evolve and sometimes it has just been part of the journey... xx

[midnightmoon05]

😊❤️

[KrakenAttackin]

This hippy bullshit sounds like a rationalization for women to divorce, take half+, take kids, take alimony/child support, and climb back on the cock carousel.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

well thanks for the giggle, i respect your view.. however, for her to make the move to end it the vibe is that corrupt she can't stand it... personally taking that decision took three years because of putting my needs before my children, and their father losing them... i felt his rage, pure animal rage, i respected that and accepted that... but he already had a new awesome vibe with another... life is complicated... so if this hippy bullshit im content with that.. out of interest has it happened to you?

[Plugs]

So your partner outgrew u?

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

@Plugs can both partners outgrow eachother? each feels they are moving through life in their own way i guess?

[KrakenAttackin]

The point of marriage is to grow and learn together. Getting bored with a partner is a shit excuse for divorce.

[strateguy632]

sounds fruitless n imagination